IVF abroad: TTC and infertility for those considering conceiving abroad

Clinic Matching Tools vs. Human Expertise: What’s the Difference?

Have you ever filled out one of those online clinic-matching tools, hoping it would tell you exactly where to go for fertility treatment — only to feel more confused or unsure?

In this short and powerful solo episode, I’m breaking down why those tools often don’t work the way you think they will — and what you really need instead.

We’ll look at the very real limitations of online match tools, why they often lead people down the wrong path, and what true expert support actually looks like.

Because this isn’t just about choosing a clinic — it’s about protecting your time, money, and emotional energy on a journey that matters more than anything.

In this episode, I cover:

• What clinic-matching tools really do — and don’t do
• The common traps people fall into when using them
• What makes human expertise and lived experience so different
• How a real strategy can save you from trial-and-error
• What to do if you’re currently feeling stuck or unsure

Whether you’ve already tried some online tools or you’re still considering your options, this episode will help you take a more confident next step.

If you are interested in Emma's expertise to match you to a clinic abroad 121 then contact [email protected] for more information.

To find out more and to access Emma's instantly available Conceive Abroad Course that will tell you EXACTLY how to find your own best fit clinic with confidence visit this link - https://www.yourivfabroad.co.uk/the-conceive-abroad-course

Want to learn more about going abroad for fertility treatment? Watch this free masterclass: yourivfabroad.co.uk/freemasterclass

FREE 15 minute video call - ready to take the next step and want to discuss the services Emma offers at home or abroad?:  calendly.com/yourivfabroad/15min

Your IVF abroad planner/journal  - Keep everything organised and in one place and document your journey and feelings along the way. Find out more/buy one here:yourivfabroad.co.uk/shop

The Impact of Infertility on Relationships: What people don't tell you

Infertility doesn’t just affect your body and mind, it affects your relationship too.

In this episode, I’m exploring the often unspoken emotional toll that infertility can have on relationships. From intimacy struggles and communication breakdowns to grief, guilt, and the pressure that comes with trying to conceive - this is a raw and honest look at what so many go through behind closed doors.

But it’s not all doom and gloom. I also share how infertility can be a catalyst for greater closeness, deeper conversations, and stronger teamwork when approached with care and support.

In this episode, I cover:

• The emotional distress that infertility can cause - individually and as part of a couple and the impact on our relationships
• How sex, communication, and connection can be affected
• The hidden strain of social isolation and feeling 'out of sync' with friends and family
• What I've seen play out in my own life from our struggles with infertility and from my clients navigating this
• How people can use this time to strengthen their bonds, rather than drift apart
• Practical tips for improving communication, intimacy, and support during this difficult time

Whether you're in the thick of infertility this episode is here to validate what you’re feeling and remind you that you’re not alone in this.

Want to learn more about going abroad for fertility treatment? Watch this free masterclass: yourivfabroad.co.uk/freemasterclass

FREE 15 minute video call - ready to take the next step and want to discuss the services Emma offers at home or abroad?:  calendly.com/yourivfabroad/15min

Your IVF abroad planner/journal  - Keep everything organised and in one place and document your journey and feelings along the way. Find out more/buy one here:yourivfabroad.co.uk/shop

The myths of a 'high risk' high bmi pregnancy - what the data says and what is just fear mongering in medical environments and what you can do about it

If you've ever been told you're “high-risk” in pregnancy just because of your BMI, or you've felt dismissed or judged in fertility or maternity care, this episode is for you.

This week, I’m joined by guest expert The Heavyweight Midwife, AKA Dr Alice Keely who helps plus size women have a happier and more empowered journey to parenthood. She has been a plus size specialist midwife since 2007 and she completed her PhD in women’s experiences of stigma in plus size pregnancy care. Through her research, her advocacy, and her online courses and coaching, Alice works to get the reassurance out there that having a plus size pregnancy does not mean you have a high risk pregnancy.

Together, we unpack the myths, the fear-mongering, and the reality of what the data actually says about plus-size pregnancy.

Whether you're trying to conceive, preparing for fertility treatment, or already pregnant, this is a must-listen conversation that will leave you feeling more informed, empowered, and less alone.

In this episode, we cover:

• What the term “high-risk” actually means and how it's often misapplied to plus-size pregnancies
• Why BMI is an unreliable metric for risk in pregnancy
• How fat bias shows up in fertility and maternity care (and the harm it causes)
• The real evidence around high bmis for plus-size pregnancies
• What respectful, supportive care should look like and how to advocate for it
• Specific challenges (and opportunities) for plus-size people navigating fertility treatment or IVF
• Why the label 'high-risk' should never be a reason for shame or poor quality care

Connect with Dr Alice Keely:

Community membership - theheavyweightmidwife.com

 TikTok & instagram - @theheavyweightmidwife

Want to learn more about going abroad for fertility treatment? Watch this free masterclass: yourivfabroad.co.uk/freemasterclass

FREE 15 minute video call - ready to take the next step and want to discuss the services Emma offers at home or abroad?:  calendly.com/yourivfabroad/15min

Your IVF abroad planner/journal  - Keep everything organised and in one place and document your journey and feelings along the way. Find out more/buy one here:yourivfabroad.co.uk/shop

What I’d Do If I’d Had Multiple Failed Cycles of IVF, IUI, Egg/sperm/double donation 

If you've experienced one or more failed IVF cycles and you're feeling lost, deflated, or unsure what to do next then this episode is for you.

I'm sharing exactly what I would do if I were in your shoes now with the knowledge I have both personally and professionally: the steps I’d take, the questions I’d ask, and how I’d shift from repeating the same cycle to building a smarter, more strategic plan.

Because failed cycles don’t mean you’ve failed. But doing the same thing again and again, without new insight, can leave you stuck in a loop of heartbreak and confusion. It doesn't have to be that way.

In this episode (does contain swearing) I cover:

• Why it’s OK (and often essential) to pause before jumping into another cycle
• How you can be more intentional with what you do and don't do before moving forwards
• Why a different approach including going abroad - might be your next best step
• My journey of multiple failed cycles prior to the birth of our son
• How to move forward with confidence, clarity, and a proper plan that gives you the best chances of success

Whether you’re still navigating the UK system or already thinking about new options, this episode will help you reflect, regroup, and take empowered action with support, not guesswork.

You’re not starting over. You’re starting from experience and it’s time to make that experience work for you.

Links mentioned in today's episode:

Email: [email protected]

Instagram: www.instagram.com/Yourivfabroad

Free training: yourivfabroad.co.uk/freemasterclass 

Want to learn more about going abroad for fertility treatment? Watch this free masterclass: yourivfabroad.co.uk/freemasterclass

FREE 15 minute video call - ready to take the next step and want to discuss the services Emma offers at home or abroad?:  calendly.com/yourivfabroad/15min

Your IVF abroad planner/journal  - Keep everything organised and in one place and document your journey and feelings along the way. Find out more/buy one here:yourivfabroad.co.uk/shop

Or do you need a proper plan first?

If you’ve found yourself booking yet another IVF consultation, hoping this one will finally give you clarity, or if you are feeling stuck and directionless then this episode is for you.

In today’s conversation, I’m breaking down why jumping from clinic to clinic, filling out endless enquiry forms, and sitting through multiple consultations often leaves you more confused and stuck than ever.

Because the truth is that maybe you don’t need more opinions and what you need now is a proper plan.

In this week's episode I cover:

Why multiple consultations aren’t moving you forward

How clinic calls can lead to overwhelm, not clarity

What a real strategy looks like and why it’s the missing piece and what you could try now to help

How to finally feel confident about your next step (without wasting more time)

Whether you're still in the system at home, or exploring going abroad, this episode will help you get unstuck and start thinking more strategically about your fertility journey.

You deserve more than trial and error - you deserve a clear path forward.

Link's below mentioned in this week's episode:

yourivfabroad.co.uk/the- conceive-abroad-course

[email protected]

Want to learn more about going abroad for fertility treatment? Watch this free masterclass: yourivfabroad.co.uk/freemasterclass

FREE 15 minute video call - ready to take the next step and want to discuss the services Emma offers at home or abroad?:  calendly.com/yourivfabroad/15min

Your IVF abroad planner/journal  - Keep everything organised and in one place and document your journey and feelings along the way. Find out more/buy one here:yourivfabroad.co.uk/shop

Are You Stuck or Just Scared? What Might Be Holding You Back from Going Abroad

In this episode: 

If you’ve been thinking about going abroad for fertility treatment but still haven’t taken the next step, this episode is for you. I’m diving into the hidden fears, doubts, and mindset blocks that can keep you stuck — even when you know something needs to change.

You’ll hear why hesitation is completely normal, how to tell the difference between being unsure and being scared, and why waiting for the 'perfect moment' might actually be costing you time and hope.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed, frozen, or just afraid of getting it wrong - you’re not alone. Let’s unpack it together.

🔗 Want to explore your next steps?

 Watch my free webinar on how fertility treatment abroad actually works (and how to do it right, plus the watch outs and highlights too!

www.yourivfabroad.co.uk/freemasterclass

Want to learn more about going abroad for fertility treatment? Watch this free masterclass: yourivfabroad.co.uk/freemasterclass

FREE 15 minute video call - ready to take the next step and want to discuss the services Emma offers at home or abroad?:  calendly.com/yourivfabroad/15min

Your IVF abroad planner/journal  - Keep everything organised and in one place and document your journey and feelings along the way. Find out more/buy one here:yourivfabroad.co.uk/shop

Emma takes you through some of the most FAQs she is gets asked about going abroad for fertility treatment like IVF and Egg Donation and some of the questions she has had from people about The Conceive Abroad Course.

To join the waitlist (with no obligation) for the Conceive Abroad Course you need to click the link below (or copy and paste it into your browser to register) by Sunday 31st May 2025 to get £100 off and the first person to buy the course will get their money refunded. You will also get my bonus little black book of contacts to support your treatment planning needs for everything from scans to medication and a full money back guarantee if you are not satisfied with the course.

To join the waitlist link

https://www.yourivfabroad.co.uk/the-conceive-abroad-course-waitlist

You will then receive full details of the offer and how to buy the course on the offer between Monday 2nd and Friday 6th June 2025.

If you are not listening to this in real time and would like to buy the course when it goes on general sale then you can do so via the link below from Monday 9th June.

https://www.yourivfabroad.co.uk/the-conceive-abroad-course

Got further questions about the course suitability?

DM me or send a voicenote on instagram @yourivfabroad

Or email: [email protected] 

Prefer to work with me 121 only? 

Please send me an email to [email protected] to discuss the options available.

Want to learn more about going abroad for fertility treatment? Watch this free masterclass: yourivfabroad.co.uk/freemasterclass

FREE 15 minute video call - ready to take the next step and want to discuss the services Emma offers at home or abroad?:  calendly.com/yourivfabroad/15min

Your IVF abroad planner/journal  - Keep everything organised and in one place and document your journey and feelings along the way. Find out more/buy one here:yourivfabroad.co.uk/shop

In this episode, Emma Haslam, founder of Your IVF Abroad, unveils her signature system designed to help you navigate fertility treatment abroad with confidence. 

Drawing from personal experience and having assisted hundreds of clients, Emma shares insights into the challenges of the UK fertility system and how seeking treatment abroad can be a viable alternative. 

She introduces the Conceive Abroad Course - a comprehensive, self-paced program that offers step-by-step guidance, trusted contacts, and strategies to save money and time and with a time sensitive special offer.

In this episode Emma discusses:

• The limitations and frustrations of the UK fertility treatment landscape
• Emma's personal journey 
• An in-depth look at the Conceive Abroad Course and its benefits
• Exclusive bonuses for waitlist members, including a £100 discount, a chance to win the course for free, and access to Emma's Little Black Book of trusted contacts
• How this course can potentially pay for itself through savings through use of the Emma's Little Black book through being able to shop around in the right places for medication.

Fast track forward with more confidence inside The Conceive Abroad Course: Emma’s step‑by‑step system that gives you everything you need to conceive abroad with confidence and calm.

🎁 Special Offer:

Join the Conceive Abroad Course waitlist by 1st June 2025 to:

• Secure a £100 discount upon course launch
• Enter a draw to win the course for free
• Gain early instant access to course materials
• Receive Emma's curated list of trusted contacts for clinics, pharmacies, and more

Note: Joining the waitlist is obligation-free. Full money-back guarantee available if the course doesn't meet your expectations.

🔗 Links & Next Steps

👉 Join the Conceive Abroad Course Waitlist here - www.yourivfabroad.co.uk/the-conceive-abroad-course

OR you can connect with Emma on Instagram @yourivfabroad and DM 'WAITLIST' to get the link to join.

After you join the waitlist you will get full details of this limited time offer, course content and bonus information.

The doors swing open for purchase on 2nd June 2025 - 6th June 2025, so for five days only and these perks are strictly only available for those on the wailist during this time period.

There is no obligation to join the course if you join the waitlist, BUT it is the only way you can access the above special offers, which will disappear once cart closes on 6th June 2025.

Don’t leave your family‑building dreams to chance abroad - click the link below, save your spot.

Link to join the waitlist (below)

yourivfabroad.co.uk/the-conceive-abroad-course

Want to learn more about going abroad for fertility treatment? Watch this free masterclass: yourivfabroad.co.uk/freemasterclass

FREE 15 minute video call - ready to take the next step and want to discuss the services Emma offers at home or abroad?:  calendly.com/yourivfabroad/15min

Your IVF abroad planner/journal  - Keep everything organised and in one place and document your journey and feelings along the way. Find out more/buy one here:yourivfabroad.co.uk/shop

Are you really ready to conceive abroad? What you must know first when having fertility treatment abroad like IVF or egg donation.

You’ve heard the success stories and heard about the tempting price‑tags, but jumping on a plane for IVF or egg donation isn’t automatically cheaper, better or safe.

In this episode, Emma busts the some myths, shares real‑life cautionary example, plus she will hand you a practical road map, so that you can pursue treatment overseas with total confidence rather than costly regret.

The episode covers:

Truth bombs, how to get things 'right' and do things properly, safely and in a way to optimise your best chances of having successful treatment abroad.

Plus how you can fast track forward with more confidence inside The Conceive Abroad Course: Emma’s step‑by‑step system that gives you everything you need to conceive abroad with confidence and calm, plus her bonus Little Black Book of UK & global contacts that routinely saves you £££s on getting your scans, meds and bloods.

Why joining the waitlist now locks in £100 off, and a chance to be the first buyer who gets the course completely free and how you have a full money back guarantee for your peace of mind if not satisfied.

🔗 Links & Next Steps

👉 Join the Conceive Abroad Course Waitlist - grab £100 off, win a free place, and get instant access if you choose to buy when cart opens from 2nd - 6th June 2025: 

www.yourivfabroad.co.uk/the-conceive-abroad-course

OR connect with Emma on Instagram @yourivfabroad and DM 'WAITLIST' to get the link to join.

After you join the waitlist you will get full details of this limited time offer, course content and bonus information.

The doors swing open on 2nd June 2025 - 6th June 2025 and for five days only and these perks are strictly only available for those on the wailist during this time period.

There is no obligation to join the course if you join the waitlist, but it is the only way you can access the above special offer, which will disappear once cart closes on 6th June 2025.

Don’t leave your family‑building dreams to chance abroad - click the link below, save your spot.

yourivfabroad.co.uk/the-conceive-abroad-course

Want to learn more about going abroad for fertility treatment? Watch this free masterclass: yourivfabroad.co.uk/freemasterclass

FREE 15 minute video call - ready to take the next step and want to discuss the services Emma offers at home or abroad?:  calendly.com/yourivfabroad/15min

Your IVF abroad planner/journal  - Keep everything organised and in one place and document your journey and feelings along the way. Find out more/buy one here:yourivfabroad.co.uk/shop

Preparing for IVF. What I want you to know before starting IVF.

Feeling overwhelmed, confused or unprepared as you start your IVF journey? You’re not alone and you’re definitely not behind.

In this episode of IVF Abroad, I’m sharing the honest truth about what I wish I’d known before I started my first cycle of IVF. Whether you’re having treatment in the UK, going abroad, or still deciding what’s right for you, this episode is packed with essential insights to help you move forward with confidence and clarity.

You’ll learn:

• The truth about how the UK fertility system sets people up to feel like they’re failing
• The prep work most people skip (and why it matters)
• What real IVF readiness looks like — medically, emotionally, and logistically
• Why the clinic you choose can make or break your chances of success 
• How to feel empowered to ask questions, advocate for yourself, and plan your treatment on your terms

Plus, I’m sharing practical tips on timing, medication, support systems and the key things to consider and prepare before you begin.

If you’re feeling stuck, unsure where to start, or just need someone to cut through the noise - this episode will help you feel more informed, grounded, and ready.

Be sure to check out the links below for the resources Emma mentions in the podcast that can help you further.

Want to learn more about going abroad for fertility treatment? Watch this free masterclass: yourivfabroad.co.uk/freemasterclass

FREE 15 minute video call - ready to take the next step and want to discuss the services Emma offers at home or abroad?:  calendly.com/yourivfabroad/15min

Your IVF abroad planner/journal  - Keep everything organised and in one place and document your journey and feelings along the way. Find out more/buy one here:yourivfabroad.co.uk/shop