The title of this episode comes from a scene from the original The Color Purple movie that I grew up watching as a young kid with my older sister. Today, I get real about what it actually felt like to manifest something that big—and how sometimes the calm after the excitement is the most important part. No fireworks. No choir of angels. Just peace. And a well-fitted, electronic ring.

Tune in, laugh a little, reflect a lot, and maybe ask yourself: What if the thing you’re chasing is just the feeling you haven’t let yourself feel yet?