Experimentation is what made me know some of my abilities or skills. Do things. Experiment so you will know what you are good at and what you are not good at.
Recently a male buddy of mine failed miserable with a female colleague of him. Why because he is weak. A man who is weak is naturally not attractive to a woman. Be strong. Be a Leader.
Self Awareness means being aware of self. Such a person will be aware of personal strengths and weaknesses. Thus might be able to decide the wats in which to be great. Anyone who wanna be great and wanna improve start with being self aware.
Reading Books Helped Me Become Better In Certain Ways But I Should Be Careful About Choosing Because The Wrong Books Might Direct Me On The Wrong Path.