Jen-U-ine Conversations

The Soul is here to experience the experience outside of duality. If you want to stay emotionally healthy, stay out of duality. Everything just is when we embody our divinity. Thanking the Ego is part of our empowerment. You can live as a Human or you can be authentic to who you really are: A Soul, fully embodied when you choose to be. Our perfection connects us on a spiritual level. Our flaws connect us on the Human/Egoic level. When we come to understand that we are perfectly imperfect, this is when we can truly connect with others. Book in 30 Days Coach, Linda Vettrus-Nichols used to help women out of the Dark Night of the Soul, now she empowers them to avoid it. Have a listen, you won’t want to miss this episode!

When we give advice, ask yourself who the advice is for? When someone is in emotional distress or just needs some clarity, it's usually split between two things: giving advice that makes us feel good or that makes them feel good. When we lead from ‘I want to feel good’ it’s really easy to miss the fact that the advice was not what the other person needed and we weren’t really listening to them. The only way to move a person forward is to get curious, ask questions, and really tap into what they are saying. Have a listen as copywriter Madison Reid and Book in 30 Days Coach Linda Vettrus-Nichols discuss the important question of ‘Who is the advice for anyways?’

So when it comes to giving advice ask yourself this question, "How will this advice help?" For intention aligned impact, you can also ask yourself these questions: "Is my intention aligned with the outcome?" In other words, is it answering their needs or mine? "How does giving this advice make me feel? Icky? Imposter Syndrome icky?" Most likely yes, because it’s so out of your league and you have no idea how to help the other person. In this episode, copywriter Madison Reid gives sage advice on giving advice. Have a listen as Book in 30 Days Coach Linda Vettrus-Nichols enjoys another great discussion with Madison in regards to giving advice.

When it comes to giving advice, how does asking ourselves Why, Where, and What questions reduce tension between us and the person asking us for advice? How do these questions gently move others towards a solution? Have a listen as Book in 30 Days Coach Linda Vettrus-Nichols interviews copywriter Madison Reid. Linda mentions that advice that isn’t asked for is like rape, and giving advice when we haven’t even asked for it is disrespectful. I know you’ll enjoy this deep discussion between these two powerful women.

Madison Reid is a highly skilled and in tune copywriter. When it comes to giving advice, Madison understands the value of hitting the "pause" button before responding. Her mantra is 'step back and listen, the answers will come’. The depth and breadth of her hands-on knowledge makes Madison wise beyond her years. She is living proof that we really can let our pasts make us better, not bitter. Have a listen as Madison shares her past with Book in 30 Days Coach Linda Vettrus-Nichols.

In this episode you will hear about a true Soul message that came to Alexandra Enke during an intense Vipassana Meditation retreat. Alexandra shares that it felt like her whole body was vibrating and there was a lightbulb in her chest. She refers to it as a heartbulb. Alex got the message that we matter and are always loved even if no one else loves us. This experience took away her neediness. Now she can tell herself, “I’m enough and I’m worthy no matter what.” We are love and we came from love. Love is all there is and we can release our pain through LOVE. I know you will enjoy this beautiful conversation between Book In 30 Days Coach, Linda Vettrus-Nichols, and Alexandra Enke.

The first time Alexandra Enke experienced oneness was when she was attending a conference of global citizens. Even with all of the differences, everyone was able to connect at a deep level. When we open up to others, we CAN connect and feel that oneness. Rather than focusing on what bugs us about another person, we can appreciate our differences and focus on the things that do connect us. Sharing our common truths is another way to find connection. Have a listen as Alexandra and Book In 30 Days Coach, Linda Vettrus-Nichols, discuss Alex’s concept of No Borders. You won’t want to miss this Jen-U-ine Conversation!

We come from the light and we have this light that we shine out into the world. What makes it unique and how do we know it’s unique? We are born with our genetic imprint and then we are shaped by our environment and what we study. All of the patterns that go through our life create our uniqueness. Some lights are more covered up from trauma and yet are still there. We can nurture that flame, connect with others, and realize we are the same... in that we are all human. Everyone has a story. In this episode, Alexandra Enke shares a teaching from one of her mentors. Have a listen as Alex and Book In 30 Days Coach, Linda Vettrus-Nichols, discuss the concept of Unity without Uniformity.

Alexandra Enke grew up in a little village in Eastern Germany with her parents and two younger sisters. The way she would shine her light was to listen to the stories of others; books got her started in this process. At the time of high school graduation Alexandra had a sense of purpose and still wasn’t sure of what it was at that time. During her college years Alex found a group of global citizens. She went all in and became a leader. While attending their international conference, something suddenly opened within her - identifying her bigger purpose. Alex realized she could become anything she wanted to be in this world. There was no turning back. Have a listen as Book In 30 Days Coach Linda Vettrus-Nichols interviews Alexandra to find out why...

LinkedIn Connection Facilitator & Career Development Coach Chelle Shapiro is no longer LIVING for a paycheck. Before becoming an entrepreneur, Chelle used to question herself on a daily basis: “Am I doing the right thing? Am I going in the right direction? Am I the person that I need to be?” She also spent way too much time asking other people these questions for validation. Now Chelle can confidently say, “I am okay with who I am, whether or not anybody else is on board with that.” I know you’ll enjoy this Jen-U-ine Conversation between Chelle and Book in 30 Days Coach Linda Vettrus-Nichols.