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In this powerful episode of The Romance Scam Rebellion, Anola sits down with Jennifer French Tomasic MSc, a psychologist and expert in coercive control, to explore one of the most insidious psychological dynamics behind manipulation and abuse.

Jennifer shares her deep expertise — rooted in both academic study and lived experience — including her MSc in the Psychology of Coercive Control and her work as a trauma practitioner and expert witness.

Together, they unpack:

• What coercive control really means — beyond just “abuse” or “manipulation”
• How patterns of undue influence and power imbalance show up in relationships, cults, and high-control environments
• Why intelligent, confident people fall deeper into deception than they ever expected
• The psychological and emotional mechanics that keep victims trapped
• How to recognize the signs early — before it’s too late

This conversation bridges the worlds of romance scam psychology and the broader terror of coercive control. It offers practical insight and compassion for anyone trying to make sense of manipulation in their relationships — whether romantic, familial, or institutional.

If you’ve ever wondered why people stay in harmful dynamics long after the red flags appear, this episode provides clarity and context.
 Welcome to a deeper understanding of how control works — and how to break free.

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