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I'm calling her AARP's Fraud Whisperer, and for good reason. Kathy Stokes, Senior Director of Fraud Prevention Programs at AARP's Fraud Watch Network, has spent years on the front lines helping everyday Americans recognize, resist, and report scams before it's too late. In this episode, Kathy walks us through the fraud tactics targeting people right now — from phone impersonation scams to AI-generated voices designed to sound like someone you trust — and explains why even the most cautious people get fooled.
But this conversation goes beyond awareness. Kathy shares the full scope of what AARP is doing to fight back — from pushing for state legislation to ban or regulate crypto ATMs, to advocating for safe, responsible AI that protects consumers rather than exploits them. We also dig into the powerful resources AARP makes available to anyone who needs help — including the free Fraud Watch Network Helpline, confidential victim support groups, and fraud prevention workshops happening across the country.
If you or someone you love has ever been targeted by a scam — or you simply want to be better prepared — this episode is for you. Because the best defense starts with three simple steps: Pause. Reflect. Protect.
 
Here are links of places you can look to for help and education.

aarp.org/fraudtips


Pause Reflect Protect
https://www.aarp.org/money/scams-fraud/pause-reflect-protect/

Words Matter
https://www.aarp.org/lp/fraud-narrative-change/?cmp=RDRCT-FRD-CONSUMER-NARRATIVE-LP-2024

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What if the person sending you those messages wasn't a willing criminal at all?

For years, we've been told to picture online scammers as heartless fraudsters sitting behind computer screens, stealing life savings without remorse. But the truth is often far more complicated.

In this gripping episode of The Romance Scam Rebellion, S. Clariba shares his extraordinary story of being trafficked from Africa to Southeast Asia and forced to work inside a scam compound. Trapped by organized crime, he was given an impossible choice: scam innocent people or face brutal consequences himself.

His story exposes the hidden human trafficking network behind the global scam industry and challenges everything we think we know about who the real victims are.

This conversation is not about excusing fraud. It's about exposing the criminal organizations that exploit vulnerable people on both sides of the screen—those who lose everything to the scams and those who are coerced into carrying them out.

Listener discretion is advised. This episode contains discussions of human trafficking, coercion, violence, and psychological trauma.

This is not an isolated story. It is part of a rapidly growing pattern of human trafficking that fuels one of the largest criminal enterprises in the world. 

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He thought he was accepting a job opportunity that would help support his family.

Instead, he was trafficked into a scam compound, stripped of his freedom, and forced to scam strangers online under the constant threat of violence.

In this powerful episode of *The Romance Scam Rebellion*, our guest shares his firsthand account of recruitment, captivity, survival, and escape from one of the criminal operations fueling today's global scam epidemic.

But escaping the compound was only the beginning.

He returned home carrying the invisible wounds of trafficking—trauma, loss, and the challenge of rebuilding a life forever changed.

This is a story of deception, exploitation, resilience, and survival. It is also a stark reminder that behind many online scams are victims on both sides of the screen.

Listener discretion is advised. This episode contains discussions of human trafficking, coercion, violence, and psychological trauma.

If you are able to help, please consider contributing to his non-profit which is helping other victims who remain trapped.  Here is the link 

Voices from the Compounds:
https://gofund.me/953cb0769

GOD BLESS AMERICA: A Survivor’s Story of What Happened in the Scam Offices of Park 8
You can buy his new book through this link:  https://a.co/01H9A2Py

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They say laughter is the best medicine. Unfortunately, it doesn't stop romance scammers—but it certainly helps expose them.

In this episode of *The Romance Scam Rebellion*, I sit down with author, scam baiter, and professional destroyer of fraudsters' dreams, Becky Holmes and fraud prevention advocate Anna Rowe.

We begin with Becky's remarkable journey from trolling romance scammers for amusement to becoming one of the UK's most recognizable voices in fraud awareness. We discuss her bestselling books, *Keanu Reeves Is Not In Love With You* and *The Future of Fraud*, and how a few cheeky exchanges with scammers evolved into a mission to educate the public about one of the fastest-growing crimes in the world.

Anna shares her own powerful story and the experiences that led her to establish two organizations dedicated to supporting victims and raising awareness: Catch the Catfish and LoveSaid. Together, we explore the devastating human impact of fraud and the urgent need for better education, support, and prevention.

Along the way, we discuss the global spread of organized fraud, the industrial-scale scam compounds operating around the world, the alarming evolution of technology, and why virtually no one is immune to manipulation.

There are laughs. There are jaw-dropping stories. There are moments that will make you furious. Most importantly, there is a reminder that behind every fake profile, every stolen photograph, and every scam message lies a very real human cost.

Whether you're a scam survivor, an advocate, or simply someone who thinks Keanu Reeves might secretly be messaging you at 2 a.m., this episode is for you.

Spoiler alert: he isn't.

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For more than a decade, one military veteran has been living a nightmare he never signed up for.

His photographs have been stolen and used by romance scammers around the world. Day after day. Week after week. Year after year.

Thousands of women have been led to believe they were in a relationship with him.

Many reached out believing they had found love. Others were heartbroken to learn the man they trusted never existed.

The constant stream of messages, confusion, and accusations took a devastating toll on his personal life. His 26-year marriage ultimately fell apart under the weight of a problem he could not control.

He fought back. He reported the fake accounts. He pleaded with social media companies to remove his stolen images. Yet the scams continued.

Today, Bryan Denny is the co-founder of AARS (Advocating Against Romance Scammers), where he works alongside Kathy Waters to expose fraud and educate the public.

When we talk about romance scams, we usually focus on the people who lose money. But Bryan represents another kind of victim—someone whose identity was stolen, whose privacy was stripped away, and whose life was forever altered by criminals he has never met.

He didn't lose his savings.

He lost something far more difficult to reclaim:

His anonymity.

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April Helm — Journalist & Host of the podcast "Scammer Stories"

Some scams don't just steal money. They steal relationships, fracture families and leave wounds that no amount of recovery can fully heal.
April Helm is a journalist and the host of Scammer Stories — a podcast dedicated to exposing the devastating reality of fraud through the voices of those who have lived it. She is also a daughter, and  watched helplessly as her mother fell deeper and deeper, into the grip of a long term romance scam.
April tried to intervene. She recognized the red flags.  But her mother,  like other victims  couldn't see what those on the outside could see clearly. The scammer had done his job well. The emotional bond was too strong. And this started a divide within the family.
Then tragedy struck. April's mother passed away — still in the grip of the scam — leaving April not only with grief but with unanswered questions, unresolved heartbreak and a fierce determination that her mother's story would not sit in silence.
It is an important and essential episode,
because romance scams don't just happen to the person being scammed. They happen to every person who loves them.
Join me as April shares the story of her mother, the scam that fractured their family and why she turned her pain into a platform that is helping others recognize the warning signs before it's too late.

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After a divorce and years of rebuilding her life, Beth Hyland thought she had finally found someone who truly understood her. What began as a promising Tinder match quickly evolved into a sophisticated romance scam built on emotional manipulation, love bombing, fake promises, and cryptocurrency fraud.

But this episode is not just about the scam.

It’s about what happens when a survivor refuses to stay silent.

Instead of hiding in shame, Beth chose to fight back. In this powerful conversation, she shares how she transformed one of the most devastating experiences of her life into advocacy, education, and healing. From publishing the actual text messages in her book, Diary of a Romance Scam: When Swiping Right Goes Wrong, to speaking publicly about the psychological tactics used by scammers, Beth is helping expose the machinery behind these crimes while giving other victims permission to speak openly without shame.

Together, we discuss trauma bonds, emotional conditioning, crypto ATM fraud, and the devastating psychological aftermath of romance scams — but we also talk about resilience, reclaiming your voice, and the courage it takes to stand in the light after being manipulated in the dark.

This is a story about survival, truth, and refusing to let criminals write the ending.

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Season 3 begins with a look at the journey since the close of Season 2 — the advocacy, the conversations, and the growing movement determined to confront the scam epidemic head-on. This season is dedicated to the warriors, whistleblowers, survivors, advocates, and experts who refuse to stay silent. Through powerful interviews and real conversations, Romance Scam Warriors shines a spotlight on the people working tirelessly to expose scams, protect potential victims, and push for real change. The fight is far from over — but no one is fighting alone.

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The man I thought I loved was real — just not the one talking to me.

In this episode, I unpack the emotional aftermath of discovering that the identity behind my romance scam belonged to an innocent man whose photos were stolen and used to defraud women worldwide. This is the story of the “other victim” — the ghost unknowingly woven into my story — and the complex grief of letting go of both illusion and reality.

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What if the person you’re falling for… was never real?

In this urgent, reality-check episode, Anola walks listeners through the seven most common psychological and behavioral signs of a romance scam — the same playbook used on her and millions of others worldwide.

This isn’t theory. It’s a diagnostic test.

From unsolicited messages and tragic backstories… to sudden work deployments, financial probing, and love declarations that come too fast — each “sign” exposes how trust is engineered, intimacy is accelerated, and victims are methodically prepared for financial extraction.

If you answer “yes” to even three of these signs, you may already be inside the scam.

This episode doesn’t just raise awareness — it provides an emergency exit plan.

Because the most dangerous scams don’t begin with a request for money…

They begin with a request for trust.

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