In this conversation, Joe Rigney discusses his book 'The Sin of Empathy,' exploring the complexities and dangers of empathy in modern society. He contrasts empathy with sympathy, examines the biblical perspective on these emotions, and critiques the emotional manipulation that can arise from excessive empathy. Rigney argues that compassion has been elevated to a control virtue, often leading to selective empathy that neglects justice. He emphasizes the need for a balanced approach to compassion and emotional engagement, warning against the potential for empathy to lead to cruelty when disconnected from moral truth. In this conversation, Joe Rigney explores the complexities of compassion and empathy, particularly in the context of Christian leadership and pastoral care. He discusses the dangers of untethered empathy, the importance of maintaining boundaries, and the role of flattery in compromising truth. Rigney offers practical advice for pastors on how to navigate difficult situations with compassion while remaining anchored in truth. He concludes with insights on preparing for future challenges in Christian living, drawing lessons from the Book of Judges.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction: The Devil's Tactics

00:21 Guest Introduction: Dr. Joe Rigney

00:31 Upcoming Event: King's Domain Conference

02:13 Interview Begins: The Sin of Empathy

02:48 Understanding Empathy and Sympathy

04:12 Book Comparisons: Leadership and Emotional Sabotage vs. The Sin of Empathy

07:44 Biblical Context: Empathy vs. Sympathy

15:36 Empathy as Emotional Manipulation

17:47 Cultural Shifts and Challenges

23:55 Empathy in Modern Contexts

28:36 The Sin of Empathy: A Controversial Perspective

29:47 Lewis's Passion of Pity and Dangerous Compassion

32:15 Empathy vs. Enmeshment: The Boundaries Debate

33:43 Flattery and Deception in Christian Ministry

35:49 The Trap of Seeking Compassionate Reputation

41:03 Future-Proof Christianity: Standing Firm in Changing Times

42:34 Practical Advice for Pastors: Balancing Compassion and Truth

51:24 Navigating Tribalism in Modern Christianity

53:37 Conclusion and Upcoming Conference Details