What actually goes down on The Bachelor? Joey Graziadei pulls back the curtain with Isaac — from how producers set the stage, to what those dramatic rose ceremonies are really like, to the secret three-month stretch where he had to act single… while secretly engaged to Kelsey Anderson. He also reflects on Daisy Kent’s graceful exit and how her decision shaped the season finale.

Joey shares what it’s like to watch the show after the fact, how he and Kelsey kept their relationship under wraps, and what it was really like to compete on Dancing With the Stars just as their relationship became public.