Arthur #schopenhauer (1788–1860) had unduly pessimistic, gloomy ideas on love and relationships. The study of his ideas in this respect serves an #educational purpose because it enables us to learn from Schopenhauer’s mistakes. Schopenhauer’s theory of the will (“life force”) underlies his views on love and relationships. This theory predicts that the will is constantly driving all living creatures towards survival, reproduction, and pleasure, without paying attention to the cost and risks involved. From this perspective, Schopenhauer viewed love as driven by the will, which he described as a blind, irrational force. His definition of #love is linked to the instinctual nature of the will. According to Schopenhauer, the expression “love is blind” should be replaced by “the will makes you blind and prompts you to make counterproductive choices.” Emotional #overdrive leads to infatuation, heartbreak, divorce, and harsh reactions. I categorise Schopenhauer’s view of #romantic love as highly sceptical. On most occasions, he argued, lovers are deluded by the will. They fool themselves into believing that love will bring them enduring satisfaction and happiness but endurance is rare. Schopenhauer described love as a turbulent, wild, unbridled desire for the possession of the beloved, often unrelated to the characteristics (personality, mentality, desires) of the beloved. When individuals fall under the spell of the will, they find it difficult to break free and make good decisions. Schopenhauer outlined this idea in his principal work “The world as will and representation,” published in 1818. According to Schopenhauer, love (“intense attraction”) does not have any other goal than the perpetuation of the species. It is totally and completely driven by the will, he argues. He does not consider any aspect other than instincts. Here is the link to the original article: https://johnvespasian.com/schopenhauers-views-on-love-and-relationships/