Choose and stay under peaceful and loving leaders. Break the addiction you've developed towards abuse. Start learning to relate to and live with peaceful people. Abused people tend to be attracted to abusers and they tend to enable further abuse. This will make your body weak and will compromise your immune system. Just move away and stay away from bad leadership, especially if it's got to do with family, church or work. Your government might be badly led but that isn't as close as family, church and work. Create the kind of environment you desire to live in. Don't let a dictator create hell for you! Save yourself from such torture.
When you live in an environment of bitterness and fights, you'll find it easy starting a quarrel. The bible says that you should leave that place quickly. You shouldn't exonerate the wicked. By exonerating the wicked, you'll inadvertently be condemning the righteous.
Pro 17:14-15 ISV
14 Starting a quarrel is like spilling water— so drop the dispute before it escalates.
15 Exonerating the wicked and condemning the righteous are both detestable to the LORD.