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One of the most daunting tasks for parents would have to be learning how to allow your children to become. It's not that you we don't trust, sometimes its just that letting go can be difficult. This week Gary and Tammy relive some of the trying times as parents learning how to navigate the terrain of parenting newly adult children and some of the hard lessons learned along the way. Let's jump right into this episode. There's a lot to learn here. Let's go!

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This week Gary and Tammy delve into the hard conversation of how to deal with your spouse when they are not oaky. You won't always be the best version of yourself. the blessing though is when you have your spouse who sticks it out with you no matter what state of mind you're in. But the truth is moments like that are built over time and generally happen right out the gate. Let's jump in and explore how to be the best you can be for your spouse even when times are hard!

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This week Gary and Tammy have brought along two of their faves in the entire world, their two youngest children Sierra and Sanaya and a cameo by their oldest grandchild, Brooklyn! This episode deals with the viewpoint of their children as they discuss their parents and how they saw them. Let's jump into this conversation. This ought to be good!

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This week Gary and Tammy are digging into the notion of being different and how we can be better because of it. Just as the man and the woman are anatomically different they are also different intellectually, emotionally and psychologically. These differneces help to paint the montage we know as marriage. Let's jup right in this episode there's a lot to unpack! 

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Sometimes when you see people who are moving at a high rate of speed it's easy to understand their sacrifice! This week we are the poster children for tired. Everyday this week it's been up by 4am, out the door by 4:30am, work our entrepreneurial pursuit then our part time jobs, all while still pastoring, parenting a high school senior and still being a spouse! We is tiiiieeeddd boss! Check out this bonus episdoe and we will be back tonight with our full episode at 7pm!

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Because of how we're wired we can tend to think certain things don't matter. Well that may not be true. There are acts of kindness and  thoughtful gestures you may be foregoing not realizing your spouse really needs it. Let's jump into this episode and explore how leaving the little things out may dismantle the marriage. But your thoughtful inclusion of the things your spouse needs will drive you all into the best place. 

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One of the greatest gifts one spouse can gift to another is to support what the other wants to do unwaveringly. As a spouse you should be your spouse's greatest cheerleader especially when the steam in that engine does not have to come from you. You must remember it's not just "my dream" it's actually "our dream" driven by my spouse. With that in mind take a listen at this episode as Gary and Tammy sojourn back to the early days of their marriage then bring us into their present day context. You are surely in for a ride!  

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Over these, almost thirty years, Gary and Tammy have found that love is more than just a notion. It is a result of love enveloped in honesty delivered to the sender in a way that allows for deep intimacy. Without this faction actively functioning in the marriage the growth of the marriage is always in jeopardy. Pull out your note taking devices, take a listen at this episode and let's see if Gary and Tammy can't help you explore marriage in a deep and profound way.

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You and your spouse are two people from two worlds, but you've been tasked to make one together. Not only do locations have to change but the language that has to be spoke shifts. This episode will really challenge you as a listener to engage your spouse in a much different way. There will come a time when you must adopt and adapt in your language then there will be times where you all must create a new one together. Let's jump right into this episode, I bet there's something interesting waiting for you here! 

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One of the greatest lessons we've learned is that strength is not quantified by velocity of your voice nor by the swing of a fist. Rather it is recognized by a true understanding of oneself, their willingness to grow and develop and by one's allowance to give place for the same kind of growth in your spouse. Here's an episode you can't afford to miss. Let's jump in, there's a lot to unpack! 

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