At different times in our lives, we play out to the world, a role we think will gain us acceptance and approval. Love and compassion in business is possible with, a healthy self empowered mindset. Different ages present at different stages of development the understandings of who we THINK we are. Being confident in who we are TODAY, can begin the journey of asking who am I without the past story of my lives up's and downs? 

Anxiety at a very deep level can create an unconscious thought process that is relived from the past. Our investment in clinging to our emotional  pain that unconsciously we believe will keep us 'safe' so that nothing can hurt us as adults, keep's us aligned with a negative Core  belief that we cannot trust the external world when in fact, the investment in life right now by adjusting  the negative past belief to a positive one  is an indictment of who we are today.  Inner Peace  is constant. Inner Pain is the struggle.

Feelings and emotions are natural. When we do not feel anything, is that a bad thing? 

If we are in denial of feeling through our past  suffering there is a bigger problem which can affect our life and , our relationships. 

Is not feeling good, or bad possibly be a journey to becoming in a neutral place of detachment from Ego ?

Why do we hang on to relationships past their due date?

Coming from spiritual love, a child develops its own understanding of how to get love as it evolves and develops with its personality forming along the way.  The narcissistic mother typically, are possessive of their children and threatened by their growth.

Relationships can become affected later in life when emotionally, as adults, we can be drawn to relationships that cannot fulfil us. 

The journey to wellness can begin with first, learning to love our own inner child . Unconditionally. 

The journey to wellness begins right here. Right now. As the child inside of us evolves, and learns that they are loved, it is possible to come back to the original state of being. Knowing that we are loved. We are heard. The journey begins with us though by first, coming home to ourselves.

When we resist feelings, they persist. The distortion of love can be healed by way of self acceptance and self acknowledgement. Our life story is just that, a story which we can choose to change via our perception and owning, our negative thoughts, feelings and actions leaving a void for a new story to begin. Saving others begins by first, saving our selves.

Our Spirit returns i personally believe,  through many lifetimes to learn new lessons that can help it embody the true essence of life. 

The healing of one self comes through many passages of shining light when we are ready to receive the forgiving actions we have taken to survive. 

Love is all there is. Our Soul's journey is to continuously learn to heal.

A Course in Miracles teaches us that everything comes from perception. Good and bad.

When I listen to my mind that wishes me to react to painful feelings or emotions, i am connecting to my past.

Authentic truth i am learning, is listening to my own truth that leads me to my own peace. The wondrous joy of life is always present. If we choose to see it. # My purpose today is to connect to where I am now. In this moment.#

The journey to our authenticity  begins with the journey to our self.

At different junctions, we learn different lessons good ,and not so good.

These lessons lead us to new challenges with obstacles that can keep us stuck in either the fearful mind, or lead us to the peaceful mind.

The belief that ,'nothing is wrong except our perception we hold of something' can be upsetting for the Ego mind to hear.

We can choose to see an obstacle  as a golden opportunity for change that can lead us always, to our purpose in this life.

How do we and why do we invest in our pain and suffering? From a spiritual perspective, nothing is wrong. Our human contact with the story we carry contributes to the believe that everything is wrong causing emotional and mental imbalance.

 Choices we make in life from a young age in our early development can happen as a result of numbing out to the past but, that painful part of the story, the bit where our suffering began, can be looked at and healed.The story will always be there but how much energy do we truly want o invest in our past?