What do you do when your best friend asks you to stand beside them on one of the biggest days of their life… but something about the relationship doesn’t sit right with you?#JustBeingAdultish #JBA #AITA #Adulting #RelationshipTalk #MarriageConversations #FriendshipDilemmas #FiguringItOut #UncomfortableTruths #RealConversations #NigerianPodcast📌 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe!👀 Follow JBA for more:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wearejba🎙️ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@wearejba?📹 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WeAreJBA

In this episode of Just Being Adultish, Dean and Frank sit down with Charles—a product designer by day and aspiring musician by passion. 🎨🎵They dive into what it really feels like to chase two creative dreams at once, the pressure to “make it,” and the quiet chaos of trying to figure things out without losing yourself. Charles opens up about navigating career confusion, staying motivated, and how his partner (who also joins the episode!) helps keep him grounded when the hustle gets real.This one’s for anyone who’s ever felt torn between structure and passion, stability and risk, or just trying to do what they love while keeping their sanity intact.🎶 Check out Charles’ music on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/5cFU6eku1j9hy1zUo9UYNV?si=FfYmO4GtSUqSPoLrvUt9bA📌 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe!👀 Follow JBA for more:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wearejba🎙️ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@wearejba?📹 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WeAreJBA

Would you date your friend’s ex if the connection felt real? 👀📌 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe!👀 Follow JBA for more:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wearejba🎙️ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@UCWb1jrId2P7107GxEuI-wRA 📹 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@UCWb1jrId2P7107GxEuI-wRA

From hawking in the streets of Calabar to securing a high-paying role at one of Africa’s biggest tech companies—this is a story of pure hustle, intentionality, and career glow-up! 🚀

In this episode, we sit down with Eben to unpack how deep research, LinkedIn networking, and a relentless drive helped him break into tech. He shares the struggles of moving to Lagos, getting sacked, and the mindset shift that took him from five figures to seven figures a month.

In this episode of Just Being Adultish, Dean and Frank dive into the ultimate relationship dilemma—if you catch someone’s partner cheating, do you snitch or stay quiet? 🤯💔 They debate whether telling the truth is worth the drama, if minding your business is the smarter move, and the messy fallout that comes with exposing a cheater.

Was I blind? Was I just a placeholder? Or are talking stages just designed for heartbreak? Let’s break it all down!

At this point… is being the firstborn a blessing or a financial curse?

🔥 We’re talking family obligations, boundaries, and the fine line between supporting loved ones and getting USED.

If this was YOU—would you pay up or tell them to fund their own nonsense? 🎤💰

We listen, we don’t judge (ish), and this time we’re reacting to confessions that are equal parts funny and surprising.

In this episode of Just Being Adultish, Dean, Frank, and special guest Paul take an insightful look at relationships and the emotional baggage we all bring along. 

In this episode of Just Being Adultish, Dean, Frank, and special guest Faith dive deep into the chaotic world of juggling multiple jobs, adjusting to first-name culture, and surviving the madness of social media. But the real kicker? Faith’s massive list of over 400 blacklisted contacts! Listen as she shares how she navigates the crazy balance of work and life, all while keeping her contact list… a bit lighter than most.