In this first part of a two part episode, Jeff and DMC explore the evolving dynamics of relationships beyond the common 50-50 rule. They unpack the complexities of partnership, traditional roles, emotional equity, and what it really means to show up fully for each other, whether in heterosexual, LGBTQ+, or unconventional arrangements.
Returning to the panel is frequent guest Anjeleigh in her first appearance with DMC and Jeff! Her point of view comes from the female end of a heterosexual marriage.
We're also welcoming Ray who is brings the view point from a long term same sex marriage.
Be sure to watch Part 2 of this conversation!
“Just… The 50/50 Theory"
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Takeaways:
Why perfect equality is unrealistic and potentially unfair.
Emotional and financial contributions: balancing responsibility versus capacity.
Unlearning traditional gender roles and societal expectations around partnership.
The importance of full-hearted investment and showing up 100-100.
How reciprocity and intentionality shape healthy relationships.
The impact of cultural backgrounds and upbringing on partnership dynamics.
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Listen to Our 90’s Playlist:
YouTube Music:
https://music.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLTzaf4yOmTtwfewr5Lq5jTB9Y5JvKg8lh&si=Lqv2Xassq-woeJUA
Spotify:
https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4xX9SSUHjjxdk7CkqUHUuN
Apple Music:
https://music.apple.com/us/playlist/the-just-drawz-podcast-presents-decades-the-90s/pl.u-06oxDB6uJNjgJe
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Guests:
Anjeleigh:
https://www.instagram.com/anjeleighpart1
Ray:
https://www.instagram.com/oquendoduke
Hosts:
DMC:
https://www.instagram.com/kklothesminded
https://x.com/DMCureton
https://linktr.ee/deeemcee
Jeff:
https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup
https://www.x.com/jefflevelsup
https://linktr.ee/jefflevelsup
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Just Drawz on Social Media:
https://www.instagram.com/thejustdrawzpodcast
https://linktr.ee/JustDrawz
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Edited and produced by:
https://www.instagram.com/jefflevelsup
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Music: "Neptunes" - by Black Assassin -
https://www.instagram.com/blk_assassin
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Keywords:
acceptance, achievement, adult content, authenticity, Black and brown men, Black gay men, boundaries, collaboration, communication, cultural differences, emotional healing, expectations, family, future aspirations, gay, gay marriage, healing, honest conversations, identity, independence, industry insights, influence, legacy, LGBTQ, LGBTQ relationships, LGBTQ+, LGBTQIA, LGBTQIA+, love, marriage, marriage views, masculinity, mental health, personal growth, proposals, queerness, recognition, relationship dynamics, relationships, safe spaces, Same gender loving, same sex marrige, self improvement, self love, self reflections, self-discovery, self-perception, sexual exploration, SGL, social media, societal perceptions, success, support, vulnerability, 50-50 relationships, Partnership dynamics, Emotional contributions, gender roles, mutual support in love, relationship flexibility, cultural impact on relationships, financial, balance in partnerships, unlearning societal norms, reciprocity in relationships
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