People are not as accountable as they believe they are. People believe that they are all victims of a terrible perpetrator. However, the good people that get tired of being haggled get tired. Especially those that have been abused. We all get tired of being the good person. Sometimes, we are the strong ones that people rely on. Sometimes we play the background character even though God wants you in the forefront. Sometimes we believe that our responses are justified but some are not. I've overreacted after being wronged for an continuous amount of time. Truly, I think we all have at one point or another. Sometimes certain people hate you for the actions that they took with you. Sometimes the judgements of others cause us to change our behaviors and actions. We need to do better. All of us. You, me and really I do believe there is always a space for healing. And the reality isn't the people are not as accountable as they are. Some people believe just apologizing is enough. It takes work to build relationships. They can be ruined instantly. Nobody is perfect. We all have perspective. Everyone believes in communication but a lot of people struggle to understand comprehension is important. especially dealing with people that believe that giving an answer instead of letting a person vent. People say certain people dont listen but what do you do when you've been listening entirely and people that will exemplify that they want to leave situations due to insecurities that are projected. Hatred and coercive control that are gifted meanwhile you were hoping for a difference. All without speaking about any situation- what if you are perceived as the bad guy and you're offended by the perspectives of another even though you shouldn't shoulder it and you're last resort is being the bad guy because people didn't understand that you were respectful in the very beginning? People are people. All things fade but God stays. Those who take the time to understand you... Those are the ones that deserve the accountability.