Just John and April

Stop Your World for your significant other is where John and April discuss the idea of stopping everything when you bae is in need of physical or emotional support. They talk about the importance of being their without any distractions when our partner shares their pain and being emotionally connected with them. It is so important to listen and not judge if your person comes to you with some type of pain. We should halt, drop everything, and stop our world to give them what they need. John and April suggests that when this happens, each person will feel loved and cared for to a level that will ultimately increase intimacy throughout the relationship.   #stopyourworld #empathy #justjohnandapril   To purchase our merchandise use this link https://teespring.com/stores/just-john-april

In this episode John and April discuss the idea of being a workaholic and how that is detrimental to a marriage. They go into things that come into marriages that may cause one to be neglected. John and April introduce their 30-Day Intimacy Boot Camp, bootcamp.justjohnandapril.com, as a way to focus on your relationship because we forget to do that some times. They suggest that taking 30 days to focus on marriages will level-up relationships and they will never go backwards but stay growing even when obstacles come.  #Workaholics #Intimacy #JustJohnandApril   To purchase our merchandise use this link https://teespring.com/stores/just-john-april

In this episode John and April discuss the effects of having a purely transactional relationship with your partner. Can your relationship thrive when it's all about what you can get out of your significant other or should you be spending more time trying to give of yourself to them?  #Overcoming #TransactionalIntimacy #JustJohnandApril To purchase our merchandise use this link https://teespring.com/stores/just-john-april

In this episode John and April discuss the idea of fixing a negative situation that happened. Something that is not that deep but that could change the mood for the rest of the day. They relate this idea to mulligans in golf where you can replay a bad shot to make it better. They share how John used a couple of mulligans this week in their relationship and how well it worked for them. April discovered the benefit of this as she saw the results when John used his mulligans. Watch and see how this is played out. #doover #fixit #justjohnandapril To purchase our merchandise use this link https://teespring.com/stores/just-john-april

In this episode John and April discuss nagging and whether or not it's an effective method of getting what you want in your relationship.  To purchase our merchandise use this link https://teespring.com/stores/just-john-april

In this episode John and April discuss what you should do when you have involuntary negative feelings about your significant other. They reveal what their involuntary negative feelings are and that they wish those feelings could be controlled. They share what situations bring about these feelings and what they do to help try to keep them from creating a negative situation. It is usually hard for them to control their feelings but they want to make sure they do not take over and cause conflict. They suggest couples are aware of their feelings and that they share their feelings sooner than later.  To purchase our merchandise use this link https://teespring.com/stores/just-john-april

In this episode John and April discuss a couple that has been married for 85 years. The couple got married at a very young age but stayed together into their hundreds. They discuss how you have to have love and friendship to keep a relationship going this long. They also point out life trials and situations that had to try them but those circumstances may be what kept them together and made them stay strong in their relationship.  #growingoldtogether #tilldeathdouspart #justjohnandapril

In this episode John and April talk about whether or not like or love is more important. They talk about the meaning of like compared to the meaning of love and which one do couples need the most.  To purchase our merchandise use this link https://teespring.com/stores/just-john-april

In this episode John and April discuss what happens when the relationship feels like the focus is all on one person. Sometimes relationships feel one-sided like the focus is always on one person instead of the two of you. What should a person do if they feel like they never get any attention because the "world revolves" around their significant other? #AllAboutYou #OnesidedLove #JustJohnandApril  To purchase our merchandise use this link https://teespring.com/stores/just-john-april

In this episode John and April discuss how keeping score in your relationship actually destroys it from the inside out. #ScoreKeeping #Competition #JustJohnandApril  To purchase our merchandise use this link https://teespring.com/stores/just-john-april