Could you suck it up buttercup, if you were told to? Do you want to? Crying sucks, being miserable sucks but it is totally OKAY to acknowledge your grief, sadness and bad mood. This does not mean you stay in a miserable state but sometimes all the positive feeling fluffy stuff covers up emotions, when they should be dealt with. This is not a happy episode but an honest look at happiness vs misery and how they need each other. www.sexnfries.com