How do we break the relational patterns that have gotten us stuck?

In this episode of Mercycast, host Raleigh Sadler engages with Justin and Trisha Davis, authors of One Choice Away from Change. They discuss the patterns we carry from our past into relationships, the importance of self-awareness in breaking cycles, and the journey of healing and forgiveness. The conversation emphasizes that recognizing our cycles and being honest about our struggles can lead to personal growth and healthier relationships. In this conversation, Raleigh Sadler engages with Justin and Trish Davis to explore the themes of honesty, authenticity, and transformation in relationships. They discuss the fear of being truly known, the importance of scriptural foundations in breaking cycles of dysfunction, and the significance of inviting God into our messy lives. The conversation emphasizes the journey of self-discovery, the power of choice, and the necessity of taking small steps toward change, ultimately highlighting that God loves and likes us as we are.

Highlights and takeaways from the conversation:

• We carry patterns from our family of origin into relationships.
• Recognizing cycles is crucial for personal growth.
• Pain avoidance can lead to dysfunctional relationships.
• Hitting rock bottom can be a catalyst for change.
• Failure can be a breeding ground for growth.
• Self-awareness is key to breaking unhealthy cycles.
• Forgiveness is essential for healing.
• We need to own our contributions to relationship dynamics.
• Honesty about our struggles is the first step to healing.
• Relationships require ongoing work and self-discovery. Honesty can be intimidating but is essential for deep relationships.
• The desire to be known often conflicts with the fear of not being loved.
• Transformation comes from being authentic, not from pretending to be better.
• God's love is about choice and acceptance of our true selves.
• The messiness of life is an invitation to grow and seek God.
• We often hide our mess, but God seeks us out in it.
• Recognizing our false selves is crucial for personal growth.
• Taking one step toward change is more important than perfection.
• God loves us unconditionally, and we are worthy of love.
• Living authentically attracts others to God's glory.

Learn more about Justin and Trisha at www.refineus.org. Don’t miss their new book, One Choice Away from Change.

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