Tonight I talk with my dear friend Jiivan about our mothers and what was their most memorable characteristic. For Jiivan it was his mothers service to others, the way she loved to make food for those in need and was always contributing, helping at funerals and hospitals for example. My Mum, Toni Latrobe as she liked to be called, was a mother of five children, four of which survived. She was a stay at home Mum, as most were in those days, with a huge potential for communication. She embodies devotion for me -.in the way she sang, in the way she spoke about others and the way she listened to them with love and an open heart, in the way she understood God from the inside, in the way she laughed and was present for others, never a bad word to say, always with a smile, and encouraging of my music... she was my biggest fan :).