A wounded sense of worth doesn't stay in childhood. It follows you into your work, your relationships, and the story you tell about who you are. In Part 2, we trace the value wound into adulthood -- the achievement treadmill that never stops, the relationships where love never quite feels safe, the inner critic that renders verdicts instead of feedback. Then we look at how a value wound shapes identity, why identity crises are often doorways rather than disasters, and what genuine healing actually looks like.
How the value wound shows up at work: perfectionism, imposter syndrome, the inability to restHow it shows up in relationships: over-giving, chronic reassurance-seeking, difficulty receiving loveThe inner critic as internalized shame -- and why it renders verdicts, not feedbackHow a wounded sense of worth produces a borrowed identity built on roles and approvalWhy an identity crisis is often growth pushing back -- not something going wrongWhat healing looks like -- and why it requires more than insightIf the borrowed identity fell away -- the role, the title, the thing you're known for -- what would be left? Is that terrifying? Or is there something in you that's curious about finding out?