TW: depression, suicide, mental health.

On this episode we discuss cyber bullying, trolling and the hate you give. The widespread impacts and the ways we can improve communication and propagate change.

Yours truly is back with that spicy masala tea. I mean she really should be knee-deep in her notes but it's okay to take a tea break, right? Let's all sip together. 

This week we discuss the questions people asked me on sex, casual relationships., relationships in general and dating. Let me be honest, there were way too many questions and this is now going to be a multipart series where we discuss your FAQs and even niche questions about these things. Disclaimer: the only qualification I have to talk about this is literally pure experiences and even that for someone in their early 20s just going through the physical, mental and emotional growing pains. So if this doesn't tell you that we need comprehensive sex education, I don't know what else will.

Okay, so I know it's easy to talk about Indian aunties and uncles and other relatives who are forever going to find fault in us no matter what we do. But what if they were part of a much larger system that taught them to be that way? What if your annoying cousin Prema or Pravin (I apologise to everyone named Prema or Pravin) are actually talking crap about you because they have no other choice but to? Today we discuss the larger mentality and a possible conspiracy of a much larger system governing the judgement of the Malaysian brown community towards other brown people.

"... And I want to tell you about my kehitaman."  We begin by discussing one of the core issues that impact brown women in our oh-so-modern society today; colourism. Today we discuss the facets of it, myths and misconceptions and how we can all come to gather and muhibah to deal with this issue of discrimination based on skin tone.

Get your Bru coffees and other thannis, kids. Mama has some stories to tell. Introducing "Kau Sakit Mana?", a podcast curated by a very questionably qualified brown woman discussing all walks of life from the tingkap of my bilik tidur.