Maintain Your Badassness and DO NOT GO BACKWARDS! This theme also works for creepy men checking you out in a creepily way. Yes, I said "creepily." When they are checking you out when they are with their woman, trying not to be seen by her. Keep on walking away and he can kick rocks. Keep on walking with your head held high when your ex tries to get you back. Do not go back to abuse, cheating, lying, etc. Keep on moving forward with your head held high and do not look back. There is something much better waiting for you.