What does it mean to be an expert in something?
Do you need a degree in a subject? Work a job in a particular area? Be a person famous for your knowledge?
Oftentimes it seems there is an area I don’t know much of anything about. Actually there are many things I know absolutely nothing about. However, in certain moments I fake it. I lie. I basically was a compulsive liar in Elementary and Middle school. I would tell the tallest of tales to boost my robust persona.
Now at age 25 this looks a bit different. I tend to avoid topics altogether I know little about. But life brings moments that expose part of the old man in us.
On this episode I will share a few stories of moments I have defended my pride by acting like an expert, what I learned from that/God has shown me, and how I have been learning the power of simply saying I don’t know or no.
Story #1: Hardware Humility; Local hardware store to get screws for a footstool I set my mind to building.
Story #2: My Culinary Arts; Futile attempts to be a grand chef while barely able to cook consistent grilled cheese.
I am a presenter. A dang good one at that. Something I dislike about my old self if my tendency to make a job I have done look good but in fact I am aware of how little I actually put into it.
I think higher of my abilities than I should. I can catch creative inspiration by eating French fries. I can dream and envision anything. The problem is I can often way overestimate my ability to put in the work.
I generally operate out of a lie that life is easy and I’m surprised when it isn’t. Particularly when it comes to learning complex things I want microwave fast results.
Story #3 Recent: cycling with my dad. Talking with friends about cycling and just having fun.
Story #4 Farm job. Becoming a learner and a better worker.
Life taking yourself too seriously not only destroys joy but it is full of pride.
Freedom comes in coming out of hiding and being who you are with all you know and don’t know.
Our digital “enlightened” age expects you to know everything all the time. Be different and be honest. There are very few experts and honesty about yourself may open the door for you to truly learn.Contact: [email protected]
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