Resonant Truth

Kevin Palmieri on Deconstructing You - External Success vs. Internal Fulfilment


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Kevin, the CFO, Founder, and Co-Host of Next Level University, a globally recognized Top 100 Self-Improvement Podcast boasting over 1,450 episodes and 850K+ listens across 125 countries, has a story of transformative self-discovery.

In his mid-20s, Kevin seemingly had it all – a stunning girlfriend, a high-paying job, a sports car, and the body he'd always dreamed of. However, his journey took an unexpected turn when he found himself contemplating suicide at what he thought was rock bottom. Little did he know, rock bottom had a basement.

Determined to overcome anxiety and depression, Kevin made a courageous decision to dive headfirst into holistic self-improvement. Fast forward several years, and he has not only turned his life around but has also played a pivotal role in impacting hundreds of thousands of lives worldwide through his podcast.

As the driving force behind the podcast's evolution into a multi six-figure business, Kevin's journey is a testament to the transformative power of self-improvement. With well over 1,450 episodes under his belt, he has become a sought-after figure, delivering speeches, trainings, and coaching calls to individuals globally.

The key catalyst for this profound change? Kevin himself. Through a dedicated focus on learning and unlearning, his life underwent a remarkable shift. His passion lies in discussing topics like Consistency, Commitment, Habits, Mindset, Confidence, Fear, Relationships, Limiting Beliefs, and everything in between.

Embodying a heart-driven yet no-nonsense approach to holistic self-improvement, Kevin is eager to continue sharing his insights and teaching even more people about the real essence of what it takes to reach the next level.

In this episode, Kevin takes us on a profound journey of self-discovery, unraveling the layers of identity and the impact of childhood on our operating systems. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own narratives, challenging the notion of success and the importance of finding deep internal fulfillment in the pursuit of authenticity. You’ll discover:

The Facade of Success

  • Kevin shares his journey from an externally successful life to the realization of internal emptiness.

  • Despite material success, Kevin lacked self-esteem and struggled with identity.

The Turning Point: A Deep Dive into Self-Reflection

  • Kevin's moment of introspection led to the recognition that he lived unconsciously, unaware of why he made certain choices.

  • The internal dialogue and self-perception mattered more than external achievements.

Identity Unveiled: Peeling Back the Layers

  • Kevin explains the challenge of identifying the reasons behind his chosen identity.

  • Reflecting on what his life meant to others versus himself was a pivotal and challenging step.

Loneliness in Success: The Unseen Struggle

  • Behind the confident exterior, Kevin felt a deep sense of loneliness and emptiness.

  • The struggle of maintaining a facade, not letting others get too close, and fearing they might see the real truth.

The Unconscious Life: Breaking Free

  • Unconscious living, as Kevin describes, involves not knowing why you do what you do.

  • The importance of digging deeper into motivations, understanding childhood conditioning, and unearthing past traumas.

The Vulnerability Dilemma: Men and Emotional Expression

  • Kevin shares his perspective on societal expectations for men regarding emotional expression.

  • Finding safety in vulnerability, especially in front of an audience, and the strength it takes to share one's feelings.

Childhood as the Operating System: Understanding the Impact

  • Childhood becomes the operating system for one's life.

  • Comparing the trajectories of individuals based on positive or negative childhood experiences.

Limiting Beliefs: Tracing Their Roots

  • Kevin delves into limiting beliefs and their origins in childhood.

  • The impact of childhood experiences on self-worth, self-belief, and how individuals tend to fulfill self-fulfilling prophecies.

Guest's Personal Insight: Connecting the Dots

  • Kevin shares personal experiences, such as his father leaving when he was young, and how it shaped his self-worth.

  • The power of self-reflection and recognizing patterns in personal and professional relationships.

The Journey to Authenticity

  • The difficulty of going back once the growth journey begins.

  • Emphasizing the strength required for vulnerability and the transformative power of self-awareness.

Love what you're listening to? Let's connect on Instagram, I'm @theelinormoshe and Elinor Moshe on LinkedIn.

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Resonant TruthBy Elinor Moshe and Daniel Darman