Hey guys and gals! It's been a while, eh? In this episode Deja and I call out her friend "KARL" for ghosting "GHOST GIRL" and not coming on the show in order for us to to hold the BOFFUM accountable for their awful communication during an 8-month break. 

How long is too long for someone to go without speaking to you before you feel ghosted? No pun intended. If they come back, are you entitled to forgive them or do you make them pick a side and stay there?

Further along in this episode I also discuss my relationship issues with "producer bae" and how I learned to be more sensitive to his needs in our relationship. We discuss how to have healthy disagreements and boundaries!

We hope that you enjoy this episode and learn something!

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In this episode Deja and I discuss the curse of being a woman. Bandman Kevo's wife recently revealed he put her out of the house and now she's homeless. "Special days" and exchanging the kids as a single parent can get messy, Deja and I talk about our experience with exchanges as kids.

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In this episode Deja and I discuss the pros and cons of being a Black woman in luxury.

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In this episode Deja and I play a game of "Would you Rather NSFW Edition". 

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In this episode Deja and I discuss the difference between being Co-workers and friends. How long do you have to know someone before you consider them friends? Do you "test" their loyalty before considering them a "friend"? Are you a firm believer in loose lips sink ships like we are?

As a bonus, I give some valuable information on how to negotiate your job offer and when to recognize certain language in a contingency letter OR while negotiating your offer. We hope you learn something!

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*** DEJA AND I ARE NOT FINANCIAL ADVISORS. WE ARE NOT GIVING FINANCIAL ADVISE WE ARE SHARING OUR STORIES. PLEASE LEARN FROM OUR MISTAKES AND MAKE DECISIONS FOR YOURSELF. PLEASE BE RESPONSIBLE AND ENJOY THIS HIGHLY REQUESTED EPISODE *** In this episode Deja and I have a special guest speaking about their financial submissiveness. In PART 1 we discuss with our special guest how to handle finances in a relationship (50/50 or separate), BUYING & LYING vs. BUYING & HIDING. Do we believe in joint accounts yes or no?

In PART 2 Deja and I discuss income to debt ratio, mortgage versus rent, saving money as a teenager and young adult, managing your money while in college /high school and how to protect yourself when buying a vehicle and checking the APR on credit cards/lines of credit. 

I'm so honored that you all trust me enough to listen to this episode. Hopefully you all can relate to this and most importantly, YOU LEARN SOMETHING! 

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