With a super-impressive bio (think: attorney, renowned public speaker, author of 13 books, family advocate, not to mention mother, wife, and grandma) Merrilee Boyak is full of wisdom, especially when it comes to raising independent and capable kids. In this episode, we glean from her years of experience as she shares why it's so important to train your kids to be independent, why you should let your kids fail, and why we shouldn't bail our kids out when they get into a bind. Through humorous stories and in a fun, upbeat style that is all Merrilee, you'll learn how agency plays a part in rearing children. And you actually might be a little excited next time your little cherub forgets an assignment so you can teach him through natural consequences.

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051: Kids + Agency (with Merrilee Boyack)

Join Becky Squared (Becky Higgins + Becky Proudfit) on a weekly basis as they discuss a variety of topics in a podcast environment that is encouraging, enlightening, and FUN! New? Scroll through the topics and start with the one that stands out to you! Expect to be inspired. // @beckyhigginsllc @beckyproudfit

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We highly recommend listening to Episode 172 before this one, as we share insights and meaningful conversation that give context to this guided meditation.


Are you ready for 10 of the most peaceful, calm, gratitude-filled minutes of your day?? Amy Tenney (@amytenneyyoga) guides you through a meditation that helps you to stay centered, mindful, and more aware of the spiritual gifts you have within.


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173: Spiritual Gifts Meditation (with Amy Tenney)

We are joined again by Amy Tenney (@amytenneyyoga) who shares thoughts and considerations that are particularly meaningful during this oftentimes more intense season … but the conversation is absolutely applicable all year round. The conversation in this episode is meant to pair with Episode 173, which is a guided meditation that is absolutely worth 10 minutes of your time.


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172: Our Gift to You

One of the great and important things we can realize for ourselves — and help our kids to realize — is the impact we each have on others. Depression and anxiety is at an all-time high … people feel isolated and alone … and we KNOW that a kind word or action from someone can literally change someone else’s life for the better. We each have the responsibility to treat everyone in our sphere of influence with kindness and respect — and teaching that responsibility to our children not only empowers them to positively impact the lives of those around them, but also increases their own capacity for love.


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SHOW NOTES:


“Never suppress a generous thought” –Camilla E. Kimball


“The Outward Mindset” by The Arbinger Institute


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171: Impact

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The Root Beer Store // https://therootbeerstore.com  // Root beer subscription


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Hive & Home // https://hiveandhomeshop.com // Refillable Dough Bowl Candles and monthly subscription // CODE: BECKY for 20% off


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The Adventure Challenge // https://www.theadventurechallenge.com // 52-week scratch-off adventure books // CODE: JORDANPAGE for 10% off


I Chart You // https://ichartyou.com // IG: @ichartyou // Genealogy charts and children’s family history journals
BYLT Basics // https://byltbasics.com // Quality men’s basics


Blue Lobster Puzzles // https://bluelobsterpuzzles.com // Puzzles // CODE: BECKY20 for 20% off


Kizik // https://kizik.com // Stylish slip-on shoes // CODE: BECKYPROUDFIT10 for 10% off


Gabb // https://gabbwireless.com // Kid-safe tech – watches and phones // Code: BECKY for 50% off


Loopy Cases // https://www.loopycases.com // Looped phone cases to help you #StoptheDrop // Code: BECKY15 for 15% off


Stairslide // https://stairslide.com // Turn your stairs into a slide


Cozy Earth // https://cozyearth.com // Bamboo bedding and pajamas // visit @sarahjanestudios on Instagram for limited-time savings up to 45%

170: 2021 Holiday Gift Guide

We are back (!!!) — and so happy to be catching up with you after a recording pause. In this episode, we catch up on what’s been going on in our lives over the past few months and share some of the pivotal lessons we’re learning in our respective journeys. As we discuss the concept of rethinking everything and deconstructing our lives in order to build something greater and stronger, we hope that you feel how much we are truly cheering each and every one of you on in your personal evolution!
 
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051: Kids + Agency (with Merrilee Boyack)

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