When your child is sick or hurt and it's nine o'clock at night, how do you decide where to go? The emergency room? Urgent care? Or can it wait until morning? For most parents, that moment of uncertainty is one of the hardest parts of raising kids — and making the wrong call can feel terrifying.
In this episode of Kids' Health Uncomplicated, host Dr. Patty Manning sits down with Dr. Brad Sobolewski, a pediatric emergency medicine physician and professor of pediatrics at the University of Cincinnati College of Medicine, to help families make smarter, calmer decisions when their child needs care.
Drawing from years of experience in one of the country's top pediatric emergency departments, Dr. Sobolewski breaks down exactly when to go to the ER, when urgent care is the better choice, and when it's safe to wait and call your pediatrician in the morning.
You'll learn:
The clearest signs that your child needs emergency care right away
Why fever alone doesn't always mean a trip to the ER — and when it does
How your pediatrician can help you make the call even after hours
What to bring and what to expect when you do go to the emergency room
Why the ER sees patients by severity, not by arrival order
How to use tools like virtual urgent care and online wait times to your advantage
Why trusting your gut as a parent is always the right first step
Timestamps:
[00:00] Introduction & safety disclaimer
[00:51] Banter — making decisions in stressful moments
[02:31] Meet Dr. Brad Sobolewski
[03:02] How to quickly decide where to go
[05:27] Symptoms that always mean the ER
[06:30] Common ER visits that could have gone elsewhere
[08:28] Special cases — newborns and immunocompromised kids
[09:53] How to prepare before an emergency happens
[13:23] Virtual urgent care and the Cincy Kids Health Connect app
[13:47] Dr. Sobolewski's one piece of advice for every parent
[17:06] Myths vs. Facts
[20:51] Wrap up
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