People will always have one or two to say about everything, “ oh she did that, ah she is doing this” most times children want to genuinely hide under the cover of their parents! Children do not always see the things that hit them and just as scared as the parents are the children tend to even fear the most, in a case as this who actually ought to be the strong one? How do you as a person deal with challenges you do not expect? Imagine taking that “how” into your life as a parent! What’s your first reaction to frustration? Ask yourself what happens on the day your child is faced with a challenge bigger than them and you are in the middle….! This episode is quite emotional dears..’ and the aim isn’t for anyone to feel pity for anyone it’s for you to look critically at yourself and do some fixing! We have had our fears and by God’s grace we have conquered! It wasn’t easy peasy as it’s written here, but we deliberately fixed our minds in one direction… with the right friends and family…! Everyone wants to feel safe, wants to trust that mummy and daddy are available and they are here for me! It is the confidence of a child that their parents are in control of the kind or things society throws at them! “Oh yes my daughter/son did this and i am not bragging it is right, you should just know that you cannot come throwing unbearable words at my child. And just incase you are seeing this and going through something you cannot share, or maybe there is no one to share with i am sure if you listen to this podcast you will surely discover ways to handle your issue and also find peace with God…! And to those who find it easy to throw stones and words at people just because they feel they have their own life figured out remember the hood book says ““These are all warning markers—danger!—in our history books, written down so that we don’t repeat their mistakes. Our positions in the story are parallel—they at the beginning, we at the end—and we are just as capable of messing it up as they were. Don’t be so naive and self-confident. You’re not exempt. You could fall flat on your face as easily as anyone else. Forget about self-confidence; it’s useless. Cultivate God-confidence.” 1 Corinthians 10:11-12 MSG It is a prayer it should just be a reminder that when you see someone going through something “ take a moment to think first! And just incase you think and your thoughts are not making sense do well you keep it to yourself 🤦🏽♀️! Do not go about judging people or criticizing blindly! Remember it’s a lot already for them! Do not add the lot from your mouth🙄! I Love You♥️