Kingdom Abide

What if the version of God you are trying to please is actually just a projection of your own fear? In Part 2 of our Fear vs. Love series, the team tackles how a fear-based reality warps our spiritual perception. When we operate out of dislocation, we naturally view the Father as a hyper-vigilant, defensive, and calculating deity who is keeping score. We discuss the radical freedom that comes when Love changes the lens—revealing a Father who doesn't possess borders to defend, who doesn't calculate debts, and who invites us out of survival mode and into the expansive, effortless peace of our Original Design.

From our relationships to our theology, a fear-based reality turns us into calculators. We constantly measure who owes us what, how to protect our energy, and where the next threat is coming from. In Part 1 of this series, we discusses how living in dislocation naturally breeds a hyper-vigilant mindset. We unpack why you cannot simply "fix" your behavior while still operating under the rules of fear. Join us at the table as we discuss how to stop playing the defensive game of self-preservation and instead open our hearts to the expansive, effortless environment of Original Design.

The Vulnerability Paradox: True Guarding of the HeartProverbs 4:23 tells us to "guard your heart above all else." But if you listen to the voice of shame—the reasoning stranger—it will convince you that guarding your heart means building walls, covering up, and hiding in the shadows. In Part 2 of our conversation on Shame, we unpack the counterintuitive truth of the Kingdom: true heart-guarding is found in practiced vulnerability. We discuss how coming out of hiding and choosing exposure completely de-powers shame, moving us past self-preserving mechanisms like fear and blame, and shifting us back into the light of Union.

What is the difference between a broken heart over a wrongdoing and the crushing weight of shame? In this episode, we kick off a new conversation about Shame. We look at how healthy guilt operates like a loving, disciplining father—it might not be pleasant, but its goal is always restoration. Shame, on the other hand, is the work of a "reasoning stranger"—an outside voice using logic to drive us into isolation. We challenge the traditional religious idea that people need to be taught to "feel the weight of their sin," arguing that humanity already feels the crushing weight of brokenness, and that’s precisely why we run and hide.

We often get stuck in a "justice-seeking" mindset, wanting others to pay for their mistakes. But as we look at the heart of the Father, we see a different goal: Metanoia (repentance and restoration). This episode takes a hard look at the story of Jonah and the reality of the Prodigal Son to show that God is after the heart, not a high horse. We discuss the challenge of seeing every person we encounter as a child of God and how to operate from a place of Union even when we are being persecuted.

We often define friendship by loyalty—but is it just loyalty at our convenience? In Part 9 of our series on Sin, we tackle the difficult dynamic of responding to other people's brokenness. When a friend is hurting or "missing the mark of identity," do we join them in their anger and "talk trash," or do we love them enough to point them back to reality? We dive into the difference between being an "enabler" of dislocation and being a truly loving friend who offers a safe place for relocation.

Many Christians find themselves trapped in a exhausting cycle: use willpower to stop a behavior, succeed for two weeks, fail, and then live in guilt until they can "pull themselves back up." In this episode, we challenge the idea that we can tackle sin through human gumption. What if the goal isn't to "stop sinning" through effort, but to step closer to the Father? We explore the reality that as we move into Union, God’s presence acts as a refining fire that naturally burns off what doesn't belong. We also discuss the complexities of dealing with the "sin" of others and the delicate tension of parenting within the Original Design.

If sin is essentially the "fruit" of living in a dislocated reality, how do we practically stay "located" in the Father? In this episode, we explore the connection between our spiritual fruit and the ancient practice of Shabbat (Sabbath).

We discuss how Galatians 5 provides a summary of humanity: showing that we will inevitably bear fruit—either of the flesh or of the Spirit—depending on where we are "walking." Rather than trying to manually fix our behavior (or "staple fruit" to a dead tree), we look at Sabbath as the design-level solution for maintaining union. By implementing a "stop-work order" for our bodies and minds, we create a sanctuary in time where we can disconnect from the performance-driven world and reconnect with our identity as the Beloved.

In this episode, we dive into one of the most significant translation shifts in the New Testament: the difference between having "faith in Jesus" and living by the "faith of Jesus." We explore how our justification isn't rooted in our ability to believe or our performance of trust, but in the objective faithfulness of Christ Himself.

If our standing with God is based on His actions rather than ours, how does that change the way we view sin and its consequences? We discuss how "missing the mark" isn't a matter of varying degrees of "badness," but a singular issue of dislocation from our Father as well as our true identity. Whether the fruit is a minor offense or a major failure, the root is the same: a lack of union and a failure to abide.

In this episode, we challenge the idea that "feeling" God is the only way to know He is there. If we measure our connection to the Father solely through the lens of emotion, we will eventually be left wanting. But what if there are multiple "senses" by which we experience Him—some of which don't require us to "feel" a thing?

Join us as we discuss how to exercise our "trust muscle" to rely on what is true even when we feel isolated or alone. We are moving from the immaturity of the "baby monitor" relationship to a mature awareness that the UV rays of His love are penetrating our lives even on the cloudiest days.