Kingdom Flow

When you’re growing in Christ as a couple, the marriage becomes sweeter. But what happens when both of you are not on the same page? Well, trust that transformation happens when you least force it – and by the grace of God, just allow your own transformation to inspire your spouse to know God more. Then together, you will be building your legacy as you’re living by faith and growing confidence in Christ.

In this episode of Kingdom Flow, our lovely wives, Michaela Sperry and Lindsay Jones, are joining this discussion as they share their own spiritual journeys and how they’re living out their faith as our wives, as moms, and as women.

Here are some power takeaways from today’s conversation:

Highlights:

[10:33] Spending Time with the Lord

Every woman is so busy, whether you're a stay-at-home mom or you’re working, the checklist of things to do is just never-ending. But we’ve got to stop making excuses and make it a priority to spend time with the Lord. Once we’re able to make that happen, it’s amazing how everything will just fall into place. Carve out some time, preferably in the morning, and it just helps set yourself up for the day. There might be days you feel exhausted and that’s okay, don’t condemn yourself.

[16:33] A True Partnership

It has to start with us. But in order for us to get and go where God wants us to go, we've got to have our helpmate on board with us, too. When couples get together, things begin to move at a new level and we begin to see true life change and family change – and then legacy begins to happen.

[18:29] Listening to the Leadership of Your Spouse

Sometimes, it requires patience in seeing your spouse go in the same direction as you do. Transformation can happen without you having to force anything on your spouse. Just let them experience your own transformation and their own transformation will just begin to happen.

[22:56] The Importance of Keeping Boundaries

When the Holy Spirit is moving in your life radically as a family, things just start to shift. That could mean having to put some boundaries and making difficult decisions in order to keep what you have. For instance, that could be letting go of relationships when they don’t align with your values anymore. Choose to spend your time with people who are going to contribute or build you up in what your family is trying to accomplish.

[35:45] Communicating with Empathy

Communication really matters. Make sure you and your spouse are coming in with empathy and doing whatever you can to work together. Then you will receive the ultimate gift of peace, something a lot of couples desire.

Notable Quotes:

[11:27] - “Everything just falls into place when you prioritize spending time with God.”

[20:12] - “There's so much blessing in it if you will just listen to the leadership of your spouse.”

[22:56] - “When the Holy Spirit is just moving in your life so radically as a family, things just start to shift.”

About the Guests

Michaela Sperry is Ian’s wife, a retired teacher, and a full-time mom of three kids, while Lindsay Jones is Kyle’s spouse, who works as an assistant principal in the Houston area and a mom to three kids.

We all have the opportunity to experience a deeper relationship with God when we choose to lead our lives according to the teachings of Jesus. But what does it mean to follow Christ wholeheartedly?

In this episode of Kingdom Flow, we talk about eliminating Jacob and becoming Israel. We discuss how you can stay committed and faithful to God through actions. Leading a committed Kingdom Flow lifestyle is no easy feat; however, with God as our guide, He will equip us every step of the way! Join Kyle and Ian in their conversation about leading a truly godly life.

Here are some power takeaways from today’s conversation:

Episode Highlights:

[09:15] Choosing to Become Israel

It was not until God had changed his name from Jacob to Israel that he was no longer known as a deceiver. God’s redemptive power changes our brokenness for His glory instead of our gain. Like Jacob, we all have a defining moment in our lives where we must choose to step into our new identity in Christ or identify with our past life.

[17:35] Living Out Faith and Commitment

If we believe Jesus gives us freedom, why do some Christians continue to live in bondage and sin? You must be fully committed and submitted to the Lord to avoid falling back into the habits of Jacob. The will of God requires the activation of faith through action. God honors obedience.

[25:11] Gaining Clarity

Know the voice of God. Spend time in the Word to gain clarity. Without doing that, you will be gripped by anxiety and fear. That hinders you from a Kingdom Flow lifestyle. Remember to stay the course.

[36:15] Why You Should Live Like Israel

Living like Israel will not be easy. But living a life of chaos is harder. Choose to work hard and grow in specific areas of your life rather than allow for the chaos that comes later. Set yourself up for the future.

[40:41] Next Man Up

Sometimes, the smallest lapse of trust and faith will make you miss out on the life God has planned for you. God knows better, and He will always find new ways to speak to us. Do what you need to do to live with that decision every day.

[47:09] Our Bodies as Temples

Our bodies are temples. So treat your body like a temple and take care of it. Everywhere you go becomes holy because Jesus is holy, and He resides within you.

Notable Quotes:

[19:55] “A lot of times, the will of God requires an activation of faith.” [20:00]

[35:28] “We have the wisdom. And then if we don’t feel like we have the wisdom, we’ve got to take a pause and we’ve got to pray through that. Even the little bitty things.” [35:37]

[51:32] “A farmer is not going to plant a seed and not expect the crop.” [51:35]

Resources Mentioned:

Kingdom Flow Episode 6

Kingdom Flow Episode 7 with Donnie Carr

Leading thousands of people while growing your business can be daunting. It’s not just about being successful in numbers. You need to ensure that what you do reflects the values and beliefs you stand for.

In this episode of Kingdom Flow, we invited the President and CEO of Christian Brothers Automotive to talk about his journey leading a Christian business. We talk about how the company reflects Donnie’s passion for people and how he faces challenges in work and family life. Join Kyle, Ian, and Donnie in their conversation about leadership, family, and business.

Here are some power takeaways from today’s conversation:

Episode Highlights:

[12:38] Selflessness Within You and Business

Donnie’s selflessness and passion for people are reflected in the company’s goal to help its employees become the best version of themselves. Different programs give people opportunities to grow, learn, and have financial stability. By playing the long game, they’re looking out for success not only for today but for future generations.

[26:14] Being a Busy Family Man

Despite running the company, Donnie finds a way for work to only impact him. He teaches his kids life lessons to become successful in life and spends time to be intentionally present with the family. His supportive wife helps him have time for both family and work. Simple things like cooking dinner and attending church together make them a family.

[48:26] When In Doubt

Donnie has wondered many times if he’s the right person to lead. These are what he does when he’s in doubt:

Donnie knows that despite his position, he’s not a big deal. He knows his value lies in Christ and his actions are in line with God.

[54:48] Making Intentional Impact

Your actions have a lot of impact on those around you. One way you can make a positive impact is to speak with truth and love. It’s important to be intentional in your actions. Learn to give and receive conversations that talk about how you and those around you can do better.

Notable Quotes:

[13:42] “If you really want what's best for you in life, then you're going to be completely selfless.” [13:47]

[50:44] “At the end of the day, my value lies in him. Not in a title, or in a bank account amount, or any of those other things.” [50:51]

[56:43] “How you're going to be successful is the ability to speak with truth and love.” [56:46]

Resources Mentioned:

Christian Brothers Automotive

About Donnie

Donnie Carr is the president and CEO of Christian Brothers Automotive. Since 2006, he has worked as a Service Writer and worked hard in different positions within the company. He created a coaching, training, and support team for the company’s franchisees that they continue to use today. Donnie embodies the company’s core values of excellence, transparency, and joy, as he leads them to grow and give quality service.

The biggest enemy of Christians is chaos. It was what the world looked like before the Spirit of God took over, and it was what sin reduced the world to today. However, God is the one who establishes order, and He calls you to pursue it in every area of your life.

In this episode of Kingdom Flow, we will discuss what the Bible says about order and how it sustains us. We will specifically discuss what it looks like to have order in the home, especially in today’s world of many broken homes. Moreover, we will also provide some practical steps you can take to pursue Godly order in your lives.

Join Kyle and Ian as they delve into Scripture for insights on how to live life in God’s orderly design!

Here are some power takeaways from today’s conversation:

Episode Highlights:

[11:09] The Biblical Basis of Order

When God created the world, as stated at the beginning of the book of Genesis, it was first nothing but chaos. When the Spirit of God came, order was established. God designed order in His creation, and it’s what we’re called to accomplish.

[21:53] The Sustaining Power of Order

Many fathers, pastors, and political leaders fall not because of a failing in character but because of a lack of order. When there is no order, weariness comes easily. On the other hand, order brings sustaining power.

[32:16] What Order Looks Like in the Home

Everyone has a role to play in their home. God designed the husband/dad to be the leader of the home, so men need to step up to it. On the other hand, the wife/mom is called to submit to the husband and to guide their kids.

[41:36] On Loving Sacrificially

Order flows naturally from loving sacrificially. Christ is the restoration of order in the world because he loved the world sacrificially, and we are called to do the same.

[50:21] Living Out Order Practically

You cannot practically live in order if you do not have practical ways of pursuing God every day. You need to prioritize your relationship with God, and your other relationships will follow. You also need Godly people who will speak into your life and hold you accountable.

Notable Quotes:

[16:08] “The biggest enemy in our lives is chaos.” [16:13]

[26:09] “Decisions that we make every day have to be Kingdom-minded decisions.” [26:13]

[39:35] “It’s hard work to wake up every day and live your life intentionally.” [39:38]

[47:06] “Before we even have transformation, we have to polish our hearts to be a living sacrifice.” [47:11]

Resources Mentioned:

The Practice of the Presence of God by Brother Lawrence

Books by Jocko Willink: Extreme Ownership | Way of a Warrior Kid

You can find God beyond the church’s walls. He’s in peace and silence. He’s with you and your family and with you in your business. God touches all aspects of your life and flows through you.

In this episode of Kingdom Flow, we’ll talk about going all-in in your life. Find out what it means to live an all-in life and how you can take first place in the things that truly matter. Join Kyle and Ian as they share their insights on how to live intentionally and thrive in different aspects of your life.

Here are some power takeaways from today’s conversation:

Episode Highlights:

[03:50] Going All In

In the broader scale of life, you need to be consistently at the top of all the different aspects of your life to be successful. We need to place first in faith and family above all else. Godly accountability will help you figure out your weaknesses. Surround yourself with godly people who will help you go all in.

[22:40] Where to Place First

Life is a journey with no destination. Focus on progression, not perfection. It may be overwhelming when you think about all the different aspects of your life. Here are the two aspects you should focus on first:

Set aside time to pray every morning. That sets the tone for the entire day. You can offer God the first part of your day. Everything else will fall into place when you submit to His presence.

[43:14] How to Take Care of Your Health

Even simple physical activity could do wonders for your health. Just get your body moving. Food intake is also crucial. Eat clean and listen to your body. Avoid gluten. Try reading Superhuman by Dave Asprey.

[52:27] Live Intentionally

Don’t be afraid of work that never ends. We must keep progressing, growing, and living an intentional life. When you live intentionally, everything in your life will just click. Always be proactive.

Notable Quotes:

[10:01] “We have to be consistently at the top of all of these parts of our life to be able to be considered successful and well rounded.”

[26:02] “If we’re aligned with our vertical relationship with our Father, everything else seems to start falling in place.”

[54:22] “Don’t be afraid of work that never ends.”

Resources Mentioned:

Dake Bible

Sparkling Gems by Rick Renner

e-Sword LT

Super Human by Dave Asprey

Life Force by Tony Robbins

Lifespan with Dr. David Sinclair

Grace is one of Jesus’ most beautiful gifts, and it’s easy to get comfortable with just receiving it. But Jesus also called us on a mission to impact other people’s lives by extending the grace we received to them.

In this episode of Kingdom Flow, Kyle Ewald continues to share his story of living on a mission to follow Christ, influencing people just as Christians before him influenced his life. But how do you actively listen to God’s calling every day? How do you become intentional in bringing the gospel to others? How do you live life on a mission?

Kyle talks about how you fall in love with God’s goodness as you seek to do what he tells you, and the ultimate mission of every Christian is to glorify Him, which is the fulfillment of our joy.

Tune in to this conversation and see how God reveals His goodness and glory in the life of a mission-driven Christian.

Here are some power takeaways from today’s conversation:

Episode Highlights:

[02:55] The People Who Brought Jesus to Kyle

Before Kyle fully received Jesus, it took a couple of people faithfully serving him to show him what it’s like to live life on a mission of genuinely loving others for Christ. These people extended not judgment but grace, and their sincerity brought Kyle to realize the life he could have with Christ.

[14:47] Keeping the Christian Fire On

Being on the grace of Christ makes you realize that life is not about religion but a relationship with the Lord. Keeping the Christian fire fresh requires falling in love with Him every day by getting to know His character deeper and understanding His will. It is living life on a mission of glorifying Him.

[22:19] The Different Callings and Missions of a Christian

When you are radically saved, you can get frustrated when you see other Christians not share the passion you have for a mission field. However, God has different callings for every Christian, and not everyone has a similar mission field. You simply need to be faithful in what you are called to do, taking advantage of every opportunity.

[33:22 ] Crediting God in Every Area of Life

Living life on a mission can lead to the danger of crediting your work for the fruits you see when you should be crediting God and His power. Wherever God brings you – in your family, your career, your ministry – remember to be humble and to give God the glory always.

Notable Quotes:

[11:10] “Flee from religion, and fall in love with who Jesus is.”

[19:12] “A lot of people, God tells them a lot of stuff that they don’t act on, but when you actually act on it, your faith has no choice but to be encouraged.”

[19:31] “Actually doing the things of the Lord correlates directly into seeing how good He is.”

[28:05] “In today’s world, I look at it, and I had this mindset of, ‘You’re here for a reason’.”

Resources

Connect with Kyle Ewald

Zion Multi Media

The Forgotten People

About the Guest

Kyle Ewald is the Founder and CEO of Zion Multi Media. At Zion, they make sure that all their clients’ contents captures their audience. He is also the Founder and Senior Pastor of The Forgotten People.

Some days, it feels like the weight of the world is on our shoulders. During these tough times, we may feel like we can’t go on. But even in our darkest moments, we can find hope by trusting in God’s plan.

In this episode of Kingdom Flow, Kyle Ewald joins us to share his journey from a dysfunctional childhood to a faithful follower. We all have a choice to make in difficult times: Will we trust God, even when things don’t make sense? Or will we give up on Him and try to figure out life on our own? Kyle lost his way for a while, but in the end, he chose to trust God—and that has led to possibilities that he could not have imagined before. His powerful story shows us that with God on our side, nothing is impossible.

Join us in this conversation to see how divine and beautiful God’s plans are. Let us hold onto His hand and walk through life together, knowing that no matter what comes our way, He will be with us always.

Here are some power takeaways from today’s conversation:

Episode Highlights:

[07:54] Have Faith

When an “unqualified” person does amazing things, it brings glory to God. When you are anxious or stressed, you cannot be present. Even when things do not go according to your plan, stay faithful and trust in His plans for your life.

[15:17] A Difficult Past

Growing up, Kyle experienced a lot of dysfunctional patterns in his life. When his mother died from drugs, his youth pastor at the time—now his stepfather—takes him in. He started doing drugs and other dysfunctional behaviors. Then, he was recruited to become a banker.

[35:21] Knowing God

Kyle got to a point where he was making tons of money. But he felt empty. When he heard a song from a Rick Pino CD, he grabbed his Bible and came to know God. From there, he went down a radical path.

[30:41] The Mission in Guatemala

When he went to Guatemala, he was amazed by a blind lady who wanted a church to be built there. So Kyle raised $8,000 and filmed the church being built. God has brought Kyle’s life back full circle. He went through suffering but everything correlates beautifully.

Notable Quotes:

[07:00] “The fact of me owning a business and running a nonprofit and doing all this is wild, but God’s had His hand on it for sure.”

[11:48] “When you worry, when you have anxiety, you’re not there. You’re not present.”

[37:18] “It doesn’t matter how much I pour into my system to make myself happy. The sea is never full.”

[47:28] “Yes, I went through hell, I guess. Yes, I went through some horrible tragedy. I’ve seen things I probably shouldn’t have seen. But it’s beautiful to see how that all correlates.”

Resources

Zion Multi Media

About the Guest

Kyle Ewald is the Founder and CEO of Zion Multi Media. At Zion, they make sure that all their clients’ contents capture their audience. He is also the Founder and Senior Pastor of The Forgotten People.

When you received Jesus Christ, you became one of God’s children. From that moment on, your life became centered on a newfound identity pushing you to live in worship every day. However, with the enemy so insistent on stealing that identity away from you, how do you maintain a worshipful standard of life to the Lord?

In this episode of Kingdom Flow, Kyle and Ian talk about what it looks like to truly step into your identity as a child of God. They also share many important insights on the necessity of being intentional in getting closer to God while establishing boundaries to detach from the temptations of the world. While there is no longer condemnation in failing, there is a yearning in every Christian to receive more of God’s glory always. Join them in this conversation about how you can live your life every day as a form of worship to the Lord.

Here are some power takeaways from today’s conversation:

Episode Highlights:

[03:02] The Emptiness in a Performance-Driven Identity

It can be tempting in today’s society to live out an identity based on the roles you perform, but who are you beyond these? Even Christians struggle with a performance-driven identity, believing by mistake that their identity as Christians is based on how many people they baptized or invited to church. However, the Bible clearly articulates that your identity is in Christ.

[16:39] Stepping Into the Christian Identity

Jesus Christ is the son of God, and when you received Him, you also became one of God’s children. This means that the identity you need to live out is being His child, and when a child messes up or performs poorly, the father does not castigate him. Instead, he cleans up after the child’s mess and embraces him with loving arms anyway.

[22:00] The Standard of Intentionally in Seeking God

No longer from a desire to perform but from a yearning that a child has for a father, you are called to be intentional in seeking God in your everyday life. This means carving out time to pray and read the Bible, making sure to be present in church gatherings, and making intentional efforts every day to receive from God, so you could worship, and He would be glorified.

[30:41] Establishing Your Boundaries

In an intentional effort to live a life of worship, you need to establish boundaries. You cannot be in communion with God without separating yourself from the world. Keep watch of your relationships with the opposite sex or the types of content you consume every day.

Notable Quotes:

[19:19] “When we accept Christ, we’re not perfect, but He helps us clean our mess.”

[34:28] “The standard that God has, we can never reach that standard. The only person that reached that standard as a human was Jesus Christ.”

[40:53] “Boundaries make it easier to live in a standard. Boundaries make it easier to live with integrity. Boundaries make it easier to live with conviction. Boundaries make it easier, as our life is a worship song to the Lord.”

[44:54] “From identity builds character, and from character builds boundaries, and from that, our act of worship is truly, truly giving back.”

You can find God beyond the church’s walls. He’s in peace and silence. He’s with you and your family and with you in your business. God touches all aspects of your life and flows through you.

In this very first episode of Kingdom Flow, find out what the podcast is all about. Get to know Kyle and Ian, your hosts, and find out what led them to the path of starting this show. Join them as they talk about their faith and how you can grow and let the Holy Spirit flow in your life.

Here are some power takeaways from today’s conversation:

Episode Highlights:

[04:03] Your Hosts, Kyle and Ian

Ian Sperry was born and raised in Louisana. He is a father to three, a husband to his high school sweetheart, and the owner of Christian Brothers Automotives. Kyle Jones was born in Oklahoma and grew up in Katy. Like Ian, he has three children and has been married for 13 years. Kyle now works in real estate.

[13:09] Kingdom Flows in You

Flow is defined as a steady and continuous stream. Kyle and Ian want to encourage the flow of the Holy Spirit into each aspect of their lives. Being a Christian is much more than routinely attending church. Once you become a Christian, it becomes your lifestyle. Intentionally take your faith in all aspects of your life.

[17:54] Finding Alignment

Kyle was able to achieve his goals in real estate. However, he continued to feel unfulfilled. Only when he listened to the Holy Spirit did he remember his faith. After that shift, Kyle worked to find peace with God. Ian kept the other parts of his life separate from God. He needed to create alignment and order. With that, he allows the Holy Spirit to flow through his whole life.

[24:42] Intentionally Hearing God

The Kingdom Flow Podcast is for everybody. They challenge everyone to be intentional and accept discomfort in order to grow. Find a deeper meaning, a deeper purpose, and a better relationship with God. The Holy Spirit comes to people in different ways. God speaks in a whisper. It’s up to you to reach out and be calm and quiet to hear his words.

[41:02] A Place of Love and Challenge

You may be comfortable where you are today. But there will always be a need to grow when you let the Kingdom flow. This podcast is coming from a place of love and challenge. Learn and grow with our hosts, Kyle and Ian. Hear from different guests with a close relationship with God and let the Kingdom flow through your life.

Notable Quotes:

[14:03] “[We want to be] truly allowing a steady and continuous flow of the Holy Spirit in every aspect of our life.”

[14:24] “God can do what God does, but then he's also looking for us to do what we can do,”

[35:52] “It's finding [God’s] whisper every day in all things,”

Resources Mentioned:

Christian Brothers Automotive

Pastor Ed Young's Instagram

Atomic Habits by James Clear

Bill Johnson

How do you bring your faith into business? How do you show love to people with different lifestyles? How do you lead your team with a servant's heart? These are the questions that business owners must answer to succeed in business and live in accordance with the Word.

In the Kingdom Flow Podcast, Kyle Jones, a husband, father, and follower of Jesus who founded TruePoint Capital, and Ian Sperry, an enthusiast on kingdom leadership and discipleship, share inspiring interviews on business, life, and faith.

Here are some power takeaways from today’s conversation:

Episode Highlights:

[01:58] The Best Way To Live Life

The best way to live your life according to the Kingdom Flow is to live by design and not by default. Living an intentional life builds a long-lasting relationship with God, who provides us with everything we need.

If you live your life by design as a Christian business owner, you set a good example to your team members. You capture their hearts and motivate them to improve their lives through faith.

[02:19] Combating Lukewarm Faith

Lukewarm faith is a great challenge for Christians in business, especially for people who grew up in the Church. If you have a lukewarm faith, you don't deny Jesus, but you don't live for him either.

Having a lukewarm faith is similar to running a business. The risk of people turning away is high. How do you counter it? You do so by leading your business and living your life in accordance with the Kingdom Flow.

[03:14] The Kingdom Flow

To be successful in business and life, you must lead and live through faith. But how do you do it? You formulate tactical methods to allow the Holy Spirit to speak to you.

Living a life following the Kingdom Flow makes everything possible.

When you live by God's Spirit and focus your mind on it, you experience a level of peace and fullness that defies description. It can only be described as living life by the Spirit.

Notable Quotes:

“Kyle is passionate about helping others unlock the God given tools available to all while working diligently to live his own life with extreme intention.”

“In four short years, he was able to turn one underperforming location into now owning three highly profitable franchises while employing over 40 people across three locations.”

“How do we bring faith into our business in a time where there's also a huge risk of turning people away? How do we show love to people when we don't agree with their lifestyle choices? How do we remain the same person all the time? The same person we are at church, at home, at work, or even the grocery store?”

Links to Resources:

TruePoint Capital

Christian Brothers Franchise