The forum Post submitted was by a young lady and this is what she siad:
I want to be real with y’all for a minute because I feel like somebody else might be going through this same fight in their mind. For the longest time, the devil kept whispering to me that my body wasn’t good enough. He tried to convince me that I needed to “fix” myself, that I should go get surgery to make my butt bigger so I could fit into what this world says is attractive. And honestly? Those thoughts started to weigh on me heavy. I would look in the mirror and instead of thanking God for what He gave me, I started picking myself apart piece by piece.
It’s wild how slick the enemy can be. He won’t come at you with a red suit and horns—nah, he slides in with little lies that sound like your own thoughts. Stuff like, “If you had a bigger butt, people would respect you more.” Or, “Nobody will look at you twice unless you look like those girls on Instagram.” And when you hear those lies long enough, you start to wonder if maybe it’s true.
But one day, I just got fed up. I was sitting there scrolling through pictures of women who had surgery, and I felt this pressure in my chest, like I wasn’t enough. And then it hit me—I said out loud, “Devil, you’re a liar.” I had to speak it because keeping it in my head wasn’t enough. I told him, “Everything God made on me is good. He didn’t make a mistake when He created me. My body is His temple, and I’m not about to let you make me tear it down just to meet your standard.”
That moment was freeing. I started to realize that the devil wants us to hate ourselves, because if we hate ourselves, we’ll never walk in the confidence God has for us. If we’re busy comparing, we can’t be busy living. And if we’re busy trying to fix what isn’t broken, we’ll never see the beauty in what already is.
Now don’t get me wrong, I’m not judging anybody who decides to get surgery. Everybody’s walk is different. But for me, the truth is I wanted surgery because I was believing lies. I wasn’t doing it out of love for myself; I was doing it out of hate for myself. And hate never produces peace.
Since then, I’ve started to change how I talk to myself. When I look in the mirror, I try to thank God for the things I used to complain about. My thighs? Strong and able to carry me through life. My stomach? Yeah, it ain’t flat, but it’s held me up through sickness, stress, and everything in between. My butt? Maybe it’s not the “perfect” shape, but it’s mine, and God said it was good when He made it.
The enemy wants us stuck in this cycle of never being satisfied. But God says we are fearfully and wonderfully made. That’s not just pretty words—that’s truth. And I had to let that truth sink in deeper than the lies.
I’ve started catching myself whenever that old voice creeps in. Like if I see some post that makes me think, “Dang, maybe I need to change something,” I stop and ask, “Who said that? Did God say that, or did the enemy?” Nine times out of ten, it’s the enemy trying to get me back into that trap.
So today, I just want to encourage whoever is reading this: don’t let the devil tell you you’re not enough. Don’t let him trick you into thinking you’ve got to change what God already called good. If you’re going to change something, do it because you love yourself, not because you hate yourself. And remember, the devil is always going to be a liar, but God’s word never lies.
I’m still learning, still growing, and some days the fight is harder than others. But every day I choose to tell that voice to shut up and remind myself: I am exactly who God made me to be, and that is enough.
Thanks for letting me share this. I hope it helps somebody who might be battling the same lies I was. You are more than enough, just as you are.
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