People argue with their significant other because they perceive that their needs have not been met. Not only that, but they perceive that their needs have not been met, specifically, by their partner. If you can start by identifying your feelings when things become heated, then you have a greater chance of solving the problem. Making accusations leads to disaster. Identifying feelings leads to healing and restoration.

Introducing Season 3 of The Kink Friendly Podcast! In this episode, I’m going to lay the groundwork for relationship work. People seem to be lost when it comes to relationships, which are actually quite simple. They are simply about loving and being loved. So, why do we make things so difficult? Men and women - let’s talk about it.

There is a lot of talk surrounding Female Dominance these days. One narrative is that a woman taking the lead in her relationship is unnatural. Another narrative is that some women are born naturally Dominant and feel most comfortable leading in their relationships. Where do you stand? Master Lala is back today to help women to explore this important topic. Our goal is for you ladies to leave with more answers than questions.

Women are oftentimes baffled by men and the way that they operate. There is a lack of understanding as to why they do the things that they do. Why can’t they just be more like us? Why do they objectify us and try to use us, at every turn? Men objectifying women is the topic today. Let’s talk about it, ladies!

This episode is for women to understand more about the 5 Stages of Sex, P*rn, and M*sturbation addictions in men. While women are not generally equipped to assist their partners when it comes to addictions of a sexual nature, they can help. Here are the things that women need to know.

There are different levels of being hurt. There are different levels of damage that can be done to a person’s soul. Some people have been wounded so badly that they feel destroyed. I’ve been there, and I’m on my own journey of healing, and I want to help others. So, ladies, let’s talk!

Mistress Alisa teaches women how to improve their relationship by playing a sex game that she calls Kiss & Tell. Relationships are about intimacy, connectedness, communication, as well as sex. And the Kiss & Tell sex game brings all of those pieces together, harmoniously.

As an Ethical Dominatrix, I practice love and respect when dealing with my clients. I provide a safe place for them to be open and vulnerable, to heal, and to do deep-level emotional work. Of course, there are some boundaries and some healthy doses of accountability. However, at the end of the day, I am about helping men to change their lives. So, they can either respect my boundaries, or they can move on. Period. Ladies, learn to set your boundaries and to stand by them.

We, as women, cannot live our best lives possible if we are not helping our men to do the same. Women have become so accustomed to fighting for our rights that we often do so to the detriment of the men in our lives. We have to do more than just get the reins and be in control. We need to learn how to read our men, how to understand them, and how to help them to thrive. This may sound like a lot of work, but it’s much easier than it sounds!

I’m going to put today’s message in the simplest terms possible. If you want to bore your guy to tears, then be The Damsel In Distress. I was in a group conversation, recently, where women were discussing how to keep a man happy. Well, being perpetually in distress is not it, ladies. Let’s talk about it!