Being right can feel good. However, the joy and the benefits of proving oneself ”right” are short-lived. And, when we invest so much effort into being right, we are missing out on many of the greater opportunities that present themselves and which could help us to be better partners in our relationships. Instead of fighting, we could be loving, supporting, encouraging, and evolving with our partners. How much do you prioritize being right in your relationship? What is the price that you pay for that?

In this episode of Kink Friendly, Mistress Alisa challenges the concept of 50-50, and how it is always detrimental to relationships. She, instead, presents the concept of 100-100. If you and your partner have been splitting things down the middle, with each of you only giving 50% of your best - and both of you are unfulfilled - then this is the episode for you. See you inside!

In today‘s episode, Mistress Alisa takes her time as she delves into Female-Led Relationships (also referred to as FLRs). She talks about the pros and cons of FLRs, and helps listeners to understand how to achieve a healthy Female-Led dynamic with their partners. This show will be helpful for both men and women, no matter their level of experience in the kink-friendly lifestyle.

Mistress Alisa often says that men don‘t know what they really want. Men oftentimes go in search of what society, their community, or the media tells them that they want. However, when they get it, they find themselves disillusioned, bored, and utterly dissatisfied. In this episode of Kink Friendly, Mistress Alisa helps men to understand what they really desire, by starting with the one part of their bodies that they are completely obsessed with: their dicks!

Today, Mistress Alisa peruses sub-Reddits that focus on relationships; sex, porn, and masturbation addictions; and of course, the kink-friendly lifestyle. She answers strangers‘ questions, makes commentary on posts, and offers general observations on the sexual state of the world today.

Men are notorious for finding themselves in elicit affairs and in precarious situations with individuals who are not their partners, while somehow seeming to be clueless about how they ended up in those positions. Once again, Mistress Alisa comes to the rescue with some useful insights on this matter for men. A man who listens to this episode will never again have to say, ”It just happened!”

One of My goodboys, who is working through a porn and masturbation addiction, was recently tasked with giving some thought to this question: ”What are you jerking off to?” He has been struggling to process the question, or to come out on the other side of the question with any sort of concrete answers. So, I have decided to do a show on the topic, and to help him and others to find answers. Let‘s do this!

Coming into today‘s show, I planned to discuss a specific topic. However, one of my goodboys had submitted an assignment to me, and I wanted to read it and give him some feedback on it. In the assignment, he mentioned that he was a pornosexual. Having never heard the term before, I immediately turned to Google and was surprised to see articles dating back to 2017. So, I got an idea. I decided to come to the show and learn about this new topic, live, with my listening audience. Let‘s explore together!

It is universally acknowledged that men are, generally, horny as hell...all of the time. Women are taught to judge men for being designed in such a way that they seem to have been born with this built-in ”flaw.” Meanwhile, many men develop complexes around their sexual urges, resulting in negative feelings like shame, guilt, and embarrassment towards their sexual sides. In this episode of Kink Friendly, Mistress Alisa comes to the rescue with some important tips for the horny boys of the world!

Back with another unpopular opinion, Mistress Alisa once again addresses an issue that represents a sore spot for men and for society, at large: men‘s obsession with their dicks and with experiencing sexual pleasure. Warning: This episode is not for the squeamish, the faint of heart, or for those who lean towards being defensive.