Kink Punx recorded live on May 20, 2023 at Transferno, a queer sex party in Brooklyn, NY, centering trans men and trans masculine people. The party hosts and guests step up to the mic in this episode. In order of appearance: August, Santos, Kris, Oak, Miles, Pup Rexy, and Adam.

 

Tune in to hear all about the sex party space, concept, rules, and guidelines! We get into centering trans identities in traditionally cis sexual spaces, being seen and being friendly. We go in depth about sex party etiquette, how to cruise, and how hold our many and various desires. Hope you enjoy the show!

Welcome to episode 1 of Kink Punx! This episode is about our interactions with cis gay men.

 

Listen in to hear about

Our love of queer masculinity

The hot legacy of outlawed sex

Cis men's parts and pleasurable touch

Meeting on Apps and IRL

Communication and consent in cis gay spaces

You will also get to hear our take on

navigating dysphoria triggers

choosing when and how much to educate people

feeling confident

and getting what we want!

Thanks for tuning in, we hope you enjoy the conversation!

Join us to discuss great lovers of the future, decolonizing definitions of sex and the body, how to learn to be good in bed, masturbation, deep communication challenges, and more!

 

In this episode, Santos and I have a brief discussion of tantra in the context of masturbation. When later I was prompted by a kind friend and listener, I could hear the colonizer's perspective in my own voice in this recording. The last thing I want to do is perpetuate an appropriative relationship to these powerful and ancient teachings. Tantra originated as part of a spiritual movement in medieval India, taking up all kinds of taboos as potential pathways to enlightenment, including but certainly not limited to sexual rituals. What I was describing in this episode could more accurately be referred to as mindful masturbation. I am sorry for how I blundered through my description of tantra practice. Thank you for your patience with me, I am determined to do better going forward. -- August

What does it mean to be good in bed? Join us to discuss being good in bed, sex education and its inadequacies, misogyny, understanding what we know and don't know, tops, bottoms, sides, and more!