Meshing is an arcane and chaotic art, so when there’s a milestone to celebrate it’s smart to do so, even if it’s merely the six month anniversary of your first dog-walk together. (Presuming someone other than the dog remembers.) Kregg and I dismantle and then rebuild coupling and making whoopee.

Dark and moody might work in movies and fashion models, but who wants to couple with dark and moody? Especially those fashion models; they seem overstrung and underfed to me. Ahem. Happy people do better than those with a gloom-cloud sitting over their head, not least when attracting and keeping someone close. There. That’s the … Continue reading "Podcast #90 Be Happy!"

Unless you’re a unicorn and find yourself coupling perfectly, forever, with your first date, you have a relationships history. As we explore ourselves and our meshing skills, some people say we accumulate baggage; others call it experience. Or character. Let’s go with that. Here’s how Kregg and I look at this murky business.

Coupling has a side-effect: de-coupling. Until we find the one with whom we want to spend our lives meshing energy, emotion and mind, we’ll make false starts, and false starts inevitably lead to real ends. Ending relationships is a rite of passage. Knowing how inept we are at the beginning is the way this journey … Continue reading "Podcast #88 Surviving Breakups"

I am woman, hear me roar! I am man, hear me…umm…take a selfie? Where have all the men gone? Is male behaviour failing to keep pace with  what women want? Is there room in the sky for both of us to shine? What should we do – if anything – to keep up with the … Continue reading "Podcast #87 Where’s The Mojo, Dude?"