We can all agree that the holidays can be a pretty stressful time of year with all the to do's and social obligations.
We can also all agree that even though we know that the holidays are stressful it's really hard to get off that holiday hamster wheel and honour what we want and need.
Why is that? Kristin aims to answer the question is this podcast episode.
Because even though you might resonate with an identity of being able to 'do it all' that doesn't mean that you should. In fact, where did you learn that you could and should do it all?
Listen in to hear Kristin share:
Her own experience of needing to put a barrier on doing and how it stems from a childhood wound of worthiness related to independence. How receptivity is a super power to feel more desire. Why creating nervous system regulation is an important ingredient in feeling safe enough to take a break. How the good girl shows up during the holidays and ways you can infuse more of your authentic needs and wants into your to do list. What human giver syndrome is and why it's a big fucking problem. How building an inner state of love and worthiness is key to honouring your needs.P.S in this episode Kristin shares about a glass ceiling but out of context and so she adds an edit to ask that instead of imagining a 'glass' ceiling you instead just imagine a barrier of some sort whether that is a cement ceiling or something else. Human error...:)
Here are the links mentioned in this episode:
Brent Brown interviewing Emily and Amelia Nagoski
The article on Human Giver Syndrome
Plus I'm adding Eve Rodsky's work on the invisible load and inequity in the division of household labour
Kristin also mentioned her own glorious course on creating deeper intimacy and better sex called the Together series which you can find here
If you want to work with Kristin in 2023 reach out at [email protected] mention code 'ready to take up space' for 15% off her 1 on 1 coaching package.