Knot 4U

Just like there are red flags in mono dating, there are red flags when dating poly. Let’s be honest, if you’re not a good person, it doesn’t matter if you’re in one relationship or multiple relationships simultaneously, your relationship(s) will likely be shitty because you are! This episode we talk about some common red flags in polyamory.

We created our podcast to educate POC on ENM, specifically polyamory. One of the main things that inspired us to do it was the MANY f*ck ups we made along the way. There was no user manual for ENM for us. We didn’t even know there was a community, so we wanted to bring awareness and education to it. My goal is to help some ppl avoid the mistakes we’ve made in our journey. With that being said, we came across a commercial for this season of TLC’s Seeking Sister-wives. Since I know very little about polygamy, and saw several POC, I decided to check it out and babyyyyyyy, it’s something else! There are four couples, one black couple, one mixed couple, and two white couples. Each dynamic is quite different which made me even more curious about it. So I did some research and found that as with polyamory, polygamy has many misconceptions. This got me thinking about the many instances of the miseducation of ENM. What do you do when you see miseducation of ENM? Are we correcting the mistakes, or continuing to have the masses misinformed? Let’s talk about it!

We all have had partners who feel they got that good good... but is it really? In this episode we talk about the MANY way one may know they got that WAP or that weak meat!!

Knowing and embracing someone’s love language(s) can be the ultimate cheat code for dating. Paying attention to the little things that make your partner happy can get you far! But what are the 5 love languages? Do you know your partner(s) love languages? How do you ensure you’re catering to your them? Join us this week when we dive into knowing and embracing your partner(s) love languages.

Let’s talk consent. Everyone needs it, so why don’t we talk about it more in polyamory and ENM? We openly talk about the importance of communication, intimacy, and sex, so why not consent? This episode, we’re going to talk about it! What does consent mean? How can you ensure you don’t get or give mixed signals when discussing consent? Join us this week to learn how you can ensure you have no blurred lines with consent. Oh Yeah... And we WILL also weigh in on the slap that ROCKed the world!! lol!!

Who wants to be loved only behind closed doors? Not us!!! Recognizing that not all people aren’t “out” in their ethically nonmonogamous love style, some may find it hard to share their relationships out in the open! If you have a partner who wants to keep your relationship private how would that make you feel?

Unless you’ve been living under a rock the past three weeks, you’ve seen or at least heard of The Tinder Swindler. This docu-series from Netflix got me to thinking, “Isn’t making connections on dating apps hard enough without worry about being finessed?!?” So this episode we’re going to be discussing dating apps, and things that make us Just Swipe Left.

In life we all deal with situations that can sometimes overwhelm us. Holding onto these things can be bad for our overall growth. We take on the burdens of others and never learn to unpack our emotions and the emotional hoard that some of us possess can become extremely detrimental and can ruin great relationships. In this solo episode with Kue he'll unpack that.

Getting gifts for that special someone can be tough  at times. What do they need? What size do they wear? What color should it be?  Do they already have this?.... But what if you have special SOMEONES... Lets talk about it cuz if your timing and POCKETS arent right.... ummmm

I think its a safe assumption that almost all of us have wanted to, thought about it, or regularly engage in threesomes... But how should one go into this space so we all have fun and no one gets cut? In this episode ww discuss some of the things that should be done to assure you and ALL involved parties are on the same page so nothing but good moments and memories are created!! AND so you can also do it again... and again.. AND AGAIN!!