In this conversation, Jenny, Erin, and our friend, author, Alan Patterson, explore themes of self-discovery, rebellion against societal expectations, and finding meaning beyond your achievements in life (status, title, wealth, etc). Alan shares his personal journey – highlighting moments of rebellion and the impact of expectations (from others) on his life. The discussion emphasizes the significance of authenticity in personal growth and the balance between radical honesty and people pleasing. Alan shares his critique of the American dream, explaining that it is a myth for many and that true fulfillment comes from exploring one's unique path rather than adhering to societal expectations.