Mary always knew she would end up in Scotland. She and her future husband made that promise to each other back in the 1980s when work took them south of the border. Life, as it tends to, had other plans. Careers, community and a very happy life in the Forest of Dean and Wales meant the move never quite happened, until now.
In her 60s, Mary is halfway through the long-awaited transition north, leaving behind the people and places that shaped decades of her life. That includes her rowing club tribe and her much-loved volunteering with the Severn Area Rescue Association, a team affectionately described by their leader as a group of "resourceful misfits."
Mary has always been drawn to the sea, calling it a "wilderness of calm." It's a fitting metaphor for this stage of life: steady on the surface, but full of movement underneath. She speaks openly about the mix of excitement and trepidation that comes with such a big change, and why volunteering has always been central to her sense of purpose.
We also hear about her early love of reading and writing, the years she spent working with economists where prose wasn't quite the priority, and the possibility that a book or even a play might still be waiting to be written.
Mary may appear calm and measured, but she admits there's an "alley cat" inside her when the situation calls for it. And if her life were ever turned into a film? She'd choose Renée Zellweger to play her: quirky, fun, a little ditsy, and quietly smart.
It's a gentle, thoughtful conversation about long-held promises, the communities we build, and the truth that new beginnings can happen at any age.
In this episode:
· A promise to return to Scotland and the 35 years it took
· Leaving behind beloved communities and volunteer work
· The role of volunteering in shaping identity
· The sea as a place of calm and reflection
· Rediscovering a love of writing
· Embracing change later in life
Listen if you enjoy: Stories of reinvention, quiet strength, volunteering, and the courage to start again.
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