A lot of us find it difficult to succeed, and even more difficult to endure failure. Not only are the two an integral part of life, but they are unique to each individual. Success is something that we get to define for ourselves, we just fall into the trap of allowing others, be it people we know or society at large, to create that definition for us and hold us accountable to meet it. If each person is unique then their definitions of success and failure are unique too.