Konversations with Kay-Dee

So Sis is driving now and stuff y'all... One thing that driving will teach you is that we're all going to our individual predetermined destinations. We all have our own speed and time allocated to get there. We all also all have our different fuel budgets and travel requirements. Even if someone else is also going to the same destination, we each have our own journeys. If someone is in a hurry, they'll overtake you. Some people you will overtake. Some vehicles are bigger and higher than yours, others you look down at. As long as you're on your lane, no one and nothing has any right to rush you or derail you in any way. As long stick to your lane and focus on getting to your destination. Everyone else is on their own journey.

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Family! It's been Hek-Tiek! I'ma see y'all next week. We're gonna keep on going with the #DearBabyGirl Series. We're still family 🤗 @KayDee_Mashile

I was talking to the Man of God yesterday and it reminded me of a series that @wordsbyezekiel did with his wife where they asked Christian singles a series of questions. One of the questions was why Christian guys won't date Christian girls and this one guy basically said that we don't see our toxic traits and often think that our achievements and purity make us entitled to a man's love and, dare I say, worship. One lesson I hope to teach my daughter is that she isn't entitled to anything in life. Let alone an entire stranger's lifelong devoted love. And when a man chooses to give her that, she should know that it is a mere blessing from God. And if she doesn't get it, it is well. The same goes for friendships. You're a not entitled, Baby Girl. You are not. This also makes women who don't get married feel as though they're not good enough. Guys, we need to stop! @KayDee_Mashile

I know the world is cruel, I know that people can disappoint you. But it's is important to have a community of people that you can trust. You cannot live this life alone. Be vigilant, be cautious but do allow yourself the permission to trust.

So... Sis went MIA for a minute there. Sorry y'all. But you know what? It's actually okay to take a break sometimes. Check out @ASSERTwomen on the socials and @Taugadi56 on IG. See you tomorrow!

You can be everything and anything you want to be, nothing can stop you. Certainly not gender stereotypes. #DearBabyGirl, push those boundaries. Take the risks. You can do it all!

This isn't something we always hear, but it is definitely something we should never forget. Share you advice with us @KayDee_Mashile or The Kay-Dee Blog on all social media platforms. #DearBabyGirl

We often try to earn people's love... But, my #DearBabyGirl, you deserve to be loved. You don't need to do anything to earn or keep love. Now be good okay, but that shouldn't be a prerequisite to you being loved. There should never be one in the first place. You DESERVE to be loved. Believe that. Always!

Self-worth is something that we each need to find for and within ourselves. Today's advice is a reminder that you are worthy! Just as much as you are enough.

Validation is something that all people seek every now and then. Let this remind and validate you, you are enough! No one could have said it better than Ms Chika! 🙌🏾 || This series is proudly supported by @CefPads