[Episode language: English]
In this brutally honest episode, Megi and I get real about the ups and downs of our 3-year relationship — from relationship ratings, girlfriend vs wife criteria, why I tried to change her (spoiler: it didn’t go as planned), and much more.

Whether you’re facing relationship challenges, stuck with communication, or just want to know how we make it work, this is a raw look at how we’ve grown as individuals and as a couple.

I’d love to know if you learn something from our lessons, and if you do, share it with your partner or that friend in need so that they don’t have to learn it the hard way.

00:00 Celebrating 3 Years Together!
05:44 Simon: Forbidden to Cook in the Relationship
09:37 Megi: Hates the Spotlight
13:14 Simon: How Would You Rate the Relationship (1-10)?
15:51 Megi: Why Do You Need to Change Me?
22:04 Simon: Only Make the Changes You Want to Make
24:38 Megi: I Accept My Partner as They Are
31:05 Simon: How Girlfriend Criteria and Wife Criteria Differ
35:57 Megi: Growth Mindset, Goal-Oriented, and I Smile Too Beautifully
39:47 Megi: Chill European Ass
42:08 Megi: The Desire to Improve Had to Come from Myself
44:43 Simon: How about You Quit Your Job?
52:59 Megi: I Need to Get My Sh*t Together
57:31 Simon: Do You Want to Be A Sugar Baby?
01:01:43 Simon: Megi's 3 Phases of Change
01:13:14 Megi: I'm No Gold Digger
01:17:23 Simon: Self-Identity - The Most Powerful Behavior Shaper
01:25:03 Simon: Try Hard. Small Wins. Believe in Yourself.
01:28:27 Megi: Keep My New Business Idea as A Secret
01:31:46 Simon: From Faithless to Hopeful
01:37:27 Megi: You Stuck Around. I Stuck Around.
01:43:19 The Key to Healthy Relationships: Honest Communication

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[本集語言：中文]
今天的來賓宣利是一位現役軍醫。
在本集中他分享了在疫情期間如何透過商會來拓展人脈和自我成長。
他也分享了他與香港伴侶的跨境愛情故事，從遠距離戀愛，到最終走入婚姻的點滴。
我們也稍微探討了文化差異、語言障礙、家庭角色與經濟責任等主題。

03:06 商會的經驗與看法
05:58 參加商會的動機與收穫
14:49 跨國愛情故事
17:54 婚姻中的角色與觀點
18:49 遠距離戀愛的挑戰
22:02 溝通與理解的藝術
24:14 文化差異與生活習慣
29:16 經濟責任與財務管理
33:04 婚姻中的支持與分工
36:14 文化差異與價值觀的碰撞
39:01 財務自由的追求與現實的矛盾

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[本集語言：中文]
在這集中，有幸邀請到與我一起接受特種部隊訓練的同期好兄弟 — 林志平（阿志） — 來和大家分享強者如他，是如何以超人的毅力，突破自己的極限，成為合格的蛙人戰士！

我們聊到為何自願前往金門，加入如此嚴苛又痛苦的特種部隊、在訓練中面臨哪些恐怖的挑戰、在體能和心理上有哪些成長、及為何痛苦會過去，但美會留下。

01:30 為何加入海龍蛙兵？
05:15 只可意會，不可言傳
15:05 對拼死拼活的全新體會
17:55 保證團隊合作的方法
21:25 攝氏10度的海上長泳
28:55 最銷魂的惡夢
38:55 最美好的收穫

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三立新聞：鋼鐵最前線完整版
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dHRhlrxSai8&t=1498s&ab_channel=三立LIVE新聞

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[Episode language: English]
Hey everybody, this is Simon. I'm new to the podcast game!

In this episode, I introduce myself and the origins of this podcast.

Expect interesting anecdotes about me and the journey of creating this podcast, with even cooler episodes to come!

00:20 - Who is Simon Kuo?
02:13 - Is being a podcaster my day job?
02:49 - Which languages do I speak?
03:29 - Am I a third-culture kid?
07:13 - What am I interested in?
07:49 - What is this podcast about?
09:01 - Why start this podcast?
10:15 - Which language will the podcast be in?
11:29 - What’s with this weird podcast name?

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[本集語言：中文]
在這個試播集中，我簡單介紹為什麼想做這個 Podcast，和為什麼以前在酒商工作的我現在幾乎不喝酒了。

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