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Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V.
In this deeply honest episode 24 of The Influence Exchange, I sit down with Kristen Crabtree, author of Be the You That’s More You Than You’ve Ever Been and creator of Paramour Paradox, to talk about identity, healing, truth, and the journey of becoming yourself again.
Kristen shares how her work was born not from business plans or strategy, but from lived experience after surviving years of deep internal disconnection, including a 22-year psychologically abusive marriage. After leaving in a fog, with no real sense of who she was, she began the difficult process of rebuilding her life and rediscovering her voice.
In this conversation, we talk about:
What Paramour Paradox really is and how it helps people reconnect with their true identity
How thoughts shape emotions, emotions shape behavior, and how many of us live in survival patterns that no longer serve us
Why transformation is less about becoming someone new and more about remembering who you already are
The idea that we only see a tiny fraction of reality through our mental “filter”
Why motivation and discipline become easier when you’re finally in alignment with your truth
The difference between surviving life and actually feeling real in it again
Kristen also opens up about what it means to leave without clarity, to rebuild from the ground up, and to discover that peace, truth, and self-worth are still possible — even after years of feeling lost.
Buy Kristen’s book on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Thats-More-Than-Youve-Ever/dp/B0G1S19489/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0
Connect with Kristen: https://www.you2point0.com/
Kristen’s website: https://www.paramourparadox.com/
Support the show
Host J.V.
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By J.V.Text The Influence Exchange Podcast and host J.V.
In this deeply honest episode 24 of The Influence Exchange, I sit down with Kristen Crabtree, author of Be the You That’s More You Than You’ve Ever Been and creator of Paramour Paradox, to talk about identity, healing, truth, and the journey of becoming yourself again.
Kristen shares how her work was born not from business plans or strategy, but from lived experience after surviving years of deep internal disconnection, including a 22-year psychologically abusive marriage. After leaving in a fog, with no real sense of who she was, she began the difficult process of rebuilding her life and rediscovering her voice.
In this conversation, we talk about:
What Paramour Paradox really is and how it helps people reconnect with their true identity
How thoughts shape emotions, emotions shape behavior, and how many of us live in survival patterns that no longer serve us
Why transformation is less about becoming someone new and more about remembering who you already are
The idea that we only see a tiny fraction of reality through our mental “filter”
Why motivation and discipline become easier when you’re finally in alignment with your truth
The difference between surviving life and actually feeling real in it again
Kristen also opens up about what it means to leave without clarity, to rebuild from the ground up, and to discover that peace, truth, and self-worth are still possible — even after years of feeling lost.
Buy Kristen’s book on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Thats-More-Than-Youve-Ever/dp/B0G1S19489/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0
Connect with Kristen: https://www.you2point0.com/
Kristen’s website: https://www.paramourparadox.com/
Support the show
Host J.V.
Episodes released weekly!
Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube and also available on all major podcast platforms.
Follow The Influence Exchange on social media.
YouTube Channel:
https://youtube.com/@theinfluenceexchange?si=GRWCJS5qhiu7aAwG
Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/the_influence_exchange?igsh=bDRzb2NwNjJyaXQ1&utm_source=qr
Tiktok:
https://www.tiktok.com/@the_influence_exchange?_r=1&_t=ZP-91Ot1k669Nu
Facebook:
https://www.facebook.com/share/1F2h4hbGNL/?mibextid=wwXIfr