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Pam breaks down the tech sell-off sparked by Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang’s sudden departure over alleged China espionage links, alongside updates on the Vardis Dental IPO, slowing home construction, and record-high credit card debt. Cal State East Bay Professor Nolan Higdon analyzes the geopolitical fallout and future of AI regulation, before financial advisor Clark Geranen shares how investors can navigate market volatility ahead of Anthropic’s upcoming IPO. The broadcast wraps up in the South Bay with Vallarta Supermarkets announcing its expansion into San Jose.
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From the early days of the San Jose Clash to the modern era of Major League Soccer, Ted Ramey has had a front-row seat to the growth of soccer in America. The longtime San Jose Earthquakes broadcaster joins Claudine Wong and Alex Lobban to discuss his family broadcasting legacy, the evolution of MLS, the World Cup and the challenges facing youth soccer in the United States.
His father, Hal Ramey, called games during the NASL era and later for the San Jose Clash. Ted attended the historic first MLS game in 1996 and eventually followed in his father’s footsteps. He shares his meticulous broadcast preparation, why American soccer fandom takes generations to grow, and the need to preserve joy in youth sports.
Guest | Ted Ramey
Ted Ramey is a longtime Bay Area sports broadcaster and the play-by-play voice of the San Jose Earthquakes. The son of former Earthquakes broadcaster Hal Ramey, he grew up around professional sports and has also covered the San Jose Sharks.
Episode Highlights
[00:00:30] Growing Up with the Quakes — His father’s influence and attending the first MLS game in 1996.
[00:03:00] The Early Days of MLS — The San Jose Clash, Spartan Stadium crowds and the Bay Area’s diverse fans.
[00:06:15] Why Soccer Is Different — The unpredictable drama of soccer and the art of calling a match.
[00:07:50] Behind the Broadcast Booth — Flashcards, research and film study before every game.
[00:11:04] Learning the Game — How Ted built deeper tactical knowledge alongside experienced commentators.
[00:13:43] Generations of Soccer Fans — Why a lasting MLS fan culture takes time to develop.
[00:16:38] Can MLS Rival Europe? — International stars, investment and attracting players in their prime.
[00:19:00] The World Cup Effect — Can international excitement become enduring MLS support?
[00:24:46] Youth Soccer Pressure — Packed schedules, burnout and turning sports into work.
[00:31:36] Pay-to-Play Pressure — How family investment adds stress for young athletes.
[00:32:58] Late Bloomers Matter — Chris Wondolowski as an example of a nontraditional pathway.
[00:38:03] The Earthquakes Academy — Homegrown players and the challenges of scouting across a large country.
[00:42:03] How Much Should Parents Push? — Balancing ambition with childhood and other interests.
[00:49:38] Keep the Fun — Why enjoyment must remain at the center of sports.
[00:50:47] The USMNT’s Future — American soccer culture and ambitions for future World Cups.
Why This Conversation Matters
American soccer has grown dramatically since 1996, but Ramey argues the next chapter needs more than bigger contracts and expensive development programs. It needs a culture in which soccer is part of everyday life—and young players have room to enjoy the game.
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Offside in the Bay | https://www.ktvu.com/tag/podcasts/offside-in-the-bay
Claudine Wong | Facebook & Instagram: ClaudineWongKTVU | TikTok: ClaudineKTVU | YouTube: ClaudineWong
Alex Lobban | Instagram: @thealexlobban
Ted Ramey | https://www.linkedin.com/in/tedrameysports/
San Jose Earthquakes feature | https://www.sjearthquakes.com/news/view-booth-ted-ramey-recalls-his-childhood-clash-connection
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AI promises to make work easier, but what happens when that same technology threatens our jobs, identity and sense of purpose? Claudine Wong and Lisa Bernard sit down with Cassandra Worthy to unpack 'AI grief'—the emotional response to changes artificial intelligence is bringing to work and everyday life.
Drawing on her corporate experience and Change Enthusiasm framework, Cassandra explores why fear and frustration deserve attention, how leaders can support employees through uncertainty, and how curiosity, resilience and human connection can help us navigate what comes next.
About the Guest
Cassandra Worthy is a bestselling author, internationally recognized speaker, chemical engineer by training and founder of Change Enthusiasm Global. After 15 years in corporate roles, predominantly at Procter & Gamble, and experiencing two major acquisitions, she developed a three-step approach to navigating change: signal, opportunity and choice.
Key Topics
· What AI grief means beyond the fear of losing a job
· The three steps of Change Enthusiasm: signal, opportunity and choice
· Why acknowledging fear is different from forcing positivity
· What managers owe employees when AI may eliminate positions
· Learning AI while feeling threatened by it
· Generational differences and the importance of human connection
· Practical ways to turn anxiety into curiosity and action
Episode Timestamps
00:00 — Welcome: AI anxiety and the changing workplace
01:12 — Defining AI grief
02:56 — Cassandra’s background and Change Enthusiasm
04:31 — Why constant change can be exhausting
05:07 — Signal, opportunity and choice
06:41 — Why AI feels different from previous disruptions
08:30 — Managing collective anxiety
10:13 — Why grief and fear deserve attention
13:02 — Focus on what you can control
14:25 — How long should grief last?
17:37 — Managers and emotional honesty
20:06 — Learning AI while fearing replacement
21:01 — Transparency about potential layoffs
24:21 — Finding support and taking action
25:20 — Community and human connection
28:53 — Generations and adapting to change
32:16 — Could AI make us more human?
34:33 — Entrepreneurship and new opportunities
35:05 — Cassandra’s own difficult days
37:03 — Concrete ways to begin
39:15 — Why difficult emotions help us grow
40:17 — Compassion and closing thoughts
Key Takeaways
· AI grief can involve the loss of familiar routines, colleagues, roles and a sense of security.
· Cassandra encourages people to treat emotions as signals, then look for opportunities and make choices.
· Leaders can help by allowing honest conversations rather than insisting on optimism.
· Human relationships, curiosity and learning remain important amid AI disruption.
“AI grief is the grief that comes when we are recognizing what we’re losing because of the advent of AI.”
“You have got to allow employees to feel heard and understood by the difficult emotions that they experience.”
“If you’re feeling anxious and fearful, listen to it. Don’t ignore it.”
Notable Quotes (from the episode)
“AI grief is the grief that comes when we are recognizing what we’re losing because of the advent of AI.”
“You have got to allow employees to feel heard and understood by the difficult emotions that they experience.”
“If you’re feeling anxious and fearful, listen to it. Don’t ignore it.”
Connect With Us
Lisa Bernard — Instagram: @DemystifyAI
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Former MLS player and San Jose Earthquakes standout Kelly Gray joins Claudine Wong and Alex Lobban for a candid conversation about his journey from Bay Area youth soccer to the professional ranks — and why he believes American youth soccer has lost some of its joy.
After playing at the University of Portland under legendary coach Clive Charles and representing the United States at the 2001 FIFA U-20 World Cup, Gray faced a defining choice: pursue opportunities in Europe or sign with Major League Soccer. He chose MLS, beginning an eight-season career that included Chicago Fire, San Jose Earthquakes and Houston Dynamo.
Now the founder of Cinch Sports, Gray discusses expensive club programs, excessive training, parental pressure, burnout and why giving kids more freedom to play could change the game. The conversation also explores coaching, team chemistry and the future identity of American soccer.
Guest:
[00:01:39] Growing Up with the Game — Playing multiple sports, pickup soccer and developing a love of competition.
[00:03:42] The Importance of Perseverance — Overcoming a difficult stretch in youth soccer and rediscovering confidence.
[00:06:45] The Coach Who Changed Everything — How Clive Charles shaped Gray as a player and person.
[00:13:34] The Road to the U-20 World Cup — From college soccer to the U.S. national youth team.
[00:15:39] Why Gray Chose MLS Over Europe — Weighing overseas opportunities against a professional pathway at home.
[00:20:52] MLS Success, Burnout and Walking Away — Championship seasons and the personal choices behind retirement.
[00:26:20] Life After Professional Soccer — Finding a new purpose through coaching and youth sports.
[00:31:19] Has Youth Soccer Lost Its Way? — Why the sport has become too expensive and overstructured.
[00:33:59] Why Kids Need More Free Play — Pickup games, creativity and independent decision-making.
[00:39:16] The Reality of Pay-to-Play — Educating parents and changing club incentives.
[00:44:40] The Cost of Competitive Soccer — Travel, fees and the missing middle between recreational and elite soccer.
[00:47:49] Talent vs. Team Chemistry — Why the best players do not automatically make the best team.
[00:52:21] Finding an American Soccer Identity — How U.S. Soccer can develop its own approach.
[00:56:17] The Future of MLS — Gray’s vision for the league’s continued growth.
Youth soccer has evolved from an affordable way to play and build friendships into an increasingly expensive, highly structured industry. Gray challenges parents, coaches and clubs to ask whether more training really means better development — and whether the game can become more fun, creative and accessible again.
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Offside in the Bay: https://www.ktvu.com/tag/podcasts/offside-in-the-bay
Claudine Wong: Facebook & Instagram: ClaudineWongKTVU | TikTok: ClaudineKTVU | YouTube: ClaudineWong
Alex Lobban: Instagram: @thealexlobban
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Dave Clark hosts a fun conversation with a range of topics. Featured on the panel are pro boxers Steve Johnson, Jahoska Chamorro, and baker John Luckey.
- Celebrity/YouTuber Boxing Matches
- Family Coach/Working With Family
- Specializing in one sport/skill
- Participation trophies in youth activities
- Cross-Combat Fighters (MMA, Kickboxers)
- Same breakfast, every morning
- Breakfast foods for dinner
- Watching workout videos/selfies on social media
- Driverless Cars
- Asking ChatGPT for advice
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James Torrez hosts an engaging conversation with a range of topics. Featured on the panel are comedians Jay Rich and Carinne Salnave.
- Splurging on Food
- Fast Food Deals
- Food Delivery
- Blocked Voicemails
- Venmo to break no contact
- Unadding on social media
- Second Chances
- Divorce Parties
- Renewing Vows
- Sports Betting
- Casinos
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Bryan Gallo hosts a fun conversation with a range of topics. Featured on the panel is content creator C. Lee, artist Project Poppa, and podcaster Lord Rab.
- Following back
- Taking meal off the check
- Tip Included
- Favorite Rap Song
- Best artist out now
- Splitting the check
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Andre Senior hosts a conversation that's all about music and social etiquette. Featured on the panel are DJ Tasi of 99.7, DJ Shellheart of the Golden State Valkyries, and owner of Studio X in Oakland, Karina Flonnoy.
- Verzuz Battles
- Comparing Bay Area Music to other regions
- AI Generated Music/Beats
- Judging an album after first listen
- Vinyl records over streaming
- Taking song requests from the audience
- People who take karaoke too serious
- Exercising without music
- Dating someone with no social media
- Paying to use a dating app
- Using AI to write your dating app bio
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Bryan Gallo hosts a conversation that's all about comedy. Featured on the panel are comedians Corde Snell, Nina G, and Inac Karacaylak.
- Drunk audience
- Crowd work
- Swearing
- Punching Down
- Dating comedians
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Pam Cook hosts a conversation that's all about party and friendship etiquette. Featured on the panel is Nursing student Natalie Haro, radio personality Morris Knight, and caterer Krieg Fayed.
- Arriving First At A Party
- Leaving a party without saying goodbye
- Being in charge of the party music
- Randomly bringing a plus one
- Public marriage proposals
- Venmo requesting a friend for a $5 purchase
- Canceling traditional homework
- Replacing textbooks with audiobooks/podcasts
- Sharing fitness achievements on social media
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