Recorded: 10/16/2022 / Published: 4/21/2023

• - Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 35 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. Text in your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.

• - In this week’s episode we are diving into another question I frequently get: “I’m new and one of my biggest fears is that I’ll do something to embarrass myself. What can I do to prevent this?”
• Correction from the last episode. I started the show in 2016, not 2017, so this will be my 6-year anniversary on November 6, 2022. Also, the 200th episode was a couple back, S04E43, an interview we did with Brittany from the Dungeon Store and Split Peaches.

• - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)

• 1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
• 2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
• 3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

• - “How to not embarrass yourself when trying BDSM-S04E45”

1. • “How to Not Embarrass Yourself When Trying Kink Play” By Gigi Fong / Sep 9, 2022
   • https://hypebae.com/2022/9/fifty-shades-of-grey-what-is-kink-sex-tips
   • “Kink and BDSM make sexual pleasure all the more fun — if you understand the rules. It takes a certain level of maturity to practice, while also holding a safe space for yourself and your partner(s) during sex.

So, if you’d like to avoid embarrassing yourself, keep reading.

1. Following toxic pop culture. As much as it made for great discussions, Fifty Shades is not an accurate representation of a consensual kink relationship. Opt for more boundary setting, communication and comprehension, and most importantly, respect.
2. Unclear Boundaries. Not being sure on what you’re okay with versus not, can leave you feeling violated and sexually unsatisfied. Neutral environments, like a coffee shop or beach date, are best for having that initial boundary-setting conversation. Make sure you do this before trying something sexually new.
3. Relying on safe words too much. Safe words are important, but if you find yourself blurting them out more often than not, you’re probably not mentally or sexually ready for this new adventure. It may be best to do more research and communicate, then revisit — or not.
4. Be prepared to laugh. Just as with life, nothing ever rarely goes as planned — but you have your tools. For example, the gym for stress relief when something goes left. Kink play is the same. You might get caught off guard at some points and let out a nervous laugh. That’s okay. As long as you feel safe and respected.”

• Mayfair’s List:
  • Manage expectations: you aren't likely to be ready for a thirty-minute whip scene right away
  • You aren't the only ones playing, prepare to hear others and to not be too disruptive. (ball gags can help)
  • Arousal can happen, if it wasn't pre-discussed leave it alone for now.
• Kuldrin’s List:
  • Properly preparing for play: education, practice, “clean out”, …
  • Become comfortable with the grunts, groans, moans, squeals, and “bodily noises”...they're all going to happen
  • Frenzy can be embarrassing. Especially when everyone else sees you in the midst of it...

Published: Feb. 28, 2023

I am having to take a small break while recovering from cervical spine surgery but we will be back to publishing sometime in the next few weeks. The show is NOT ending. I still have 11 unpublished episodes that I am editing for the podcast feed and new live episodes are recorded via YouTube on the first and third Sundays of every month. The show starts at 3pm est. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/YouTube
With that said, there may or may not be a live show on March 5th, 2023, due to surgery recovery. I will have to see how I feel the day of and make the call on the fly. If you go to my YouTube channel through the link above and subscribe and follow the channel be sure to turn on the notification so you will know when we are live.

As always, a HUGE THANK YOU to all of our producers and everyone that listens to the show!

Recorded: 7/17/2022 / Published: 2/13/2023

• Text questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.

• In this week’s episode we are having some fun and talking about the joined by Dan and Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast to learn about BDSM rituals.

• Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)

• Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
• KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
• “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

• “BDSM Rituals with Erotic Awakening Podcast-S04E40”

1. • https://www.eroticawakening.com/

Important Links:

1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/440
2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/
4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
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6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic

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Recorded: 7/17/2022 / Published: 01/25/2023

• Text questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.

• In this week’s episode we are talking about Praise Kinks and Breeding Fetishes.

1. Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)

• Safe, sane, consensual, and informed
• KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity
• “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young

1. - “How to Explore a Praise Kink, According to Sex Experts-S04E38”

• By: Hendy Phillips, June 21, 2022
• https://www.popsugar.com/love/praise-kink-48857696

“What is a Praise Kink:ll, student, daddy, baby, teacher, pet, term of endearment, sub, dom, etc.].

• - You're so good at [insert skill].
• - I'm so lucky to have you. I know everyone wants a _______ just like you.
• - You look so hot when you [insert activity].
• - I can't wait to show you off.
• - You look so good in that [insert item of clothing/fetish wear].
• - Your [insert body part] is irresistible.
• - You taste so good. I can't get enough of you.
• - You're doing amazing — I'm so proud of you.

- Praise Kink Tips:

1. Breeding Kink…WTF?
   • https://www.rollingstone.com/culture/culture-news/elon-musk-nick-cannon-breeding-kink-1382676/amp/?fbclid=IwAR1Cuyfoyfb_KOA6agVNMG_a3BJRqfGVEuKFwfrST-llixaolz3xc7dJe4g

• “A breeding kink is a sexual desire to impregnate as many people as possible for reasons related to power, control, or even in some cases eugenics; an impulse shared by such illustrious luminaries as Jeffrey Epstein and Donald Cline, the Indianapolis fertility doctor featured in Netflix’s Our Father who inseminated dozens of women without their consent over the course of decades. (He later pleaded guilty to two felony counts of obstruction of justice related to the investigation, receiving a one-year suspended sentence.)”

Important Links:

1. Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/438
2. National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255
3. NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/
4. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication
5. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey
6. https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic

Show Producers:
Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon
Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal
Snail mail a donation or gift:
Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC
257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168
Alcoa, TN 37701

1. - Benefactor ($2,000/month):
2. - Pro Producer ($100/month):
3. - Master Producer ($50/month):...