Listen to the review by Dennis Morton above, and read it below.
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Just in case you’re late for an appointment, or you’re about to exit your car, let me suggest that you not miss Grandma, which stars the inimitable Lily Tomlin. It’s a fabulous flick.
Now then, if you have a few minutes, let me suggest why Grandma is such a very fine film. In the first place: the script. Paul Weitz not only directs Grandma, but he wrote the script. Weitz is a straight white guy who has written a movie about a broken-hearted, ageing lesbian, and her granddaughter. Men are practically absent from the film. With the exception of a nine or ten minute scene in which Sam Elliot’s character recounts an ancient and brief relationship with Tomlin’s character, males are few and far between in Grandma. The women Weitz has created easily carry the film. The few men, who show up sporadically, are mostly guys who help keep a very old car on the road.
The movie is billed as a comedy, and it is often very funny, but it’s a lot more than that. I can’t count the number of scenes in which tears, my tears, were close at hand. Lily Tomlin is amazing. Her character, Elle, is so believable, and in such barely disguised pain that I found myself commiserating with her, in spite of her nasty verbal tantrums.
Elle is a poet whose only book was published decades ago. It received enough kudos that she was able to nail a handful of part time teaching gigs at various universities. But recently, those gigs have been few in number. And we learn, early in the film, that Elle’s partner of almost forty years, Violet, has recently died. It was an expensive death and Elle insisted on paying all the medical bills. Consequently, when Elle’s granddaughter, Sage, shows up seeking some modest but immediate financial assistance – Elle is without the means to provide it.
So, together, Sage and Elle set off in search of the necessary moolah. They have about a half a day to find it. Elle’s grief over the loss of Violet is manifested in a ubiquitous bitterness. It’s a bitterness that has destroyed a very recent relationship with a much younger woman, a woman enamored of Elle’s poetry. And initially, it would also appear to be an impenetrable barrier to a healthy relationship with her granddaughter Sage. But a granddaughter in need turns out to be a pivot point in Elle’s life. How this happens is at the heart of the movie.
I mentioned the quality of the script, but as fine as it is, without stellar performances, even the best dialogue falls flat. Happily, there’s not a dull moment in Grandma.
Sage speaks as much with her facial expressions as with words. Elle is the queen of catchy insult and brilliant nastiness, and Olivia, Elle’s spurned young lover, is ever articulate. Elle even confides in her granddaughter that Olivia’s big brain is a powerful aphrodisiac.
Grandma is not your ‘and they lived happily ever after’ kind of movie. But the characters do grow as they grapple with the challenges at hand.
Paul Weitz created Grandma with Lily Tomlin in mind. Her performance, if there’s any justice at all in Oscar nominations, should earn her one. And if there were an Oscar for the best picture produced with the least money, Grandma would have no competition. Weitz made Grandma for 600 thousand dollars. That’s chump change by
Hollywood standards.
Grandma is a great movie. Don’t miss it.