Confidence is defined by most psychotherapists as the feeling, belief or trust in one’s self and one’s ability, quality or judgement to succeed at any particular moment.
We’ve all seen it, a player who is immensely talented with fantastic ability, yet their confidence seems to have all but disappeared. It can look like they are a totally different player who is even struggling to run!
Some players can go through long periods of playing where they just seem to be flying high, with confidence in abundance. Others can go through periods of months on end, terrified of making another mistake.
Lacking confidence is one of the most worrying aspects of the game for a player and, unfortunately, a drop in confidence can come at any time. A player might lose confidence for various reasons:
Fear of failure
Fear of disappointing others
Attempt to perform perfectly
Intimidated by opponentOnce a player loses their confidence, even the most simple of technical skills can be difficult to perform.
Alternatively, a confident player feels like he can achieve anything within their true potential.
So, how do we develop and maintain confidence? Is it something that we, as coaches and players, can have more control over?
This episode is also available as a blog post: http://l2cb.com/2021/09/09/what-does-a-confident-soccer-player-look-like/