Happy 2025! Since our first episode in 2023, we wanted recap on what has transpired for the both of us during the last year in a half.

Both relationships have assisted in helping us become someone different. We know we all have been in relationships that have either added to us in becoming a better person; or they have made us become a bad version of ourselves that we are not.

Have you had a relationship that made you grow better as a person or made you worse in life?

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot, we decided to discuss a topic near and true to us, "Black women's hair and things you should know about it." As two ethnic women who have been in interracial relationships, there are certain rules we have to put in place when it comes to thing we can and can not do with our hair.

We know that we can in no way speak for the entire Black/Hispanic race when talking about our experiences but at the very least provide a starting perspective and understanding. Especially for those men who are dating a woman of ethnicity.

Please join us as we dive into " Black Women's Hair & Dating."

In this weeks episode of the Lady and the Harlot, we discuss Losing the V-Card (Virginity) and womens sexuality. Losing your virginity/ V-Card means having sex for the first time. The idea of virginity can apply to people of any gender or sexual orientation. The most important thing is that you decide when you're ready to have sex.

Also learning about your sexuality is different for everyone. It is important to recognize that we are all different and the things that feel right for us may not feel right to someone else . At the end of the day, we should all feel comfortable to explore our sexuality in a safe, consensual and responsible way.

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot, we discuss a previous post about 6 examples of Micro-Cheating and what that might look like to some people.

Since we received so many mix reviews/comments based on the topic of Micro-Cheating, we decided to dive in further and explain how we see it from our point of view. Please Join Us!

If you haven't seen the post yet on our page, please check out our Instagram and Facebook to view the post on 6 examples of Micro-Cheating.

In the weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot, we discuss Settling for less in a relationship. So what does settling for less mean? Letting go of the very things that define you, the beliefs that reflect who you are, and the values that are at your core. Its about stifling your own voice with in a relationship. Its about accepting something less than what you want or deserve, even if it makes you unhappy.

Join us as we dive into how we have settled for less in our own personal relationships and the impact it has taken on our lives.

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot, we discuss would we prefer, "Separate Beds or Separate Homes?? Sleeping apart is more common than one might think. There are no rules out there saying couples have to sleep in the same bedroom, especially if your partner snores and is keeping you up at night, etc. The same goes for separate homes, There are some couples who are in a committed relationship but choose to live separately for various reasons. Weather its because they love their solitude and space or because they feel like not being together constantly actually strengthens their bond. Either way, Sleeping in separate beds or living apart might offer some relief to couples who value their individual space as well as each other. At the end of the day, it really up to both individuals and if they are on the same page.

Please join us as we discuss, Separate Beds or Separate Homes??

In the weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot, we posted a video on our Instagram page, which brought up the topic, "Would you let your partner hang out with friends of the opposite sex alone?" There are two guys in the video, one seems to be fairly confident in allowing his girlfriend to do so, while the other one says its not an insecurity thing but its all about respect.

Tell us what do you think? as we dive into, "Crossroads Between Confidence & Insecurities."

In this weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot Podcast, we discuss a video we came across from Dr. Jeff Guenther. He brings up 12 valid personal questions to ask before going on a first date if you are looking for a serious relationship and don't want to waste your time. Listen in as we discuss where we stand on this topic.

Please join us as we dive into "Important Questions You Should Ask On A First Date."

This weeks episode of Lady and the Harlot is called "Crossing Boundaries."