Meet one of the attorneys behind Hightower Reff Law: Tosha Heavican.

In this episode of The Lady Lawyer League, Tracy sits down with Tosha to talk about her unconventional path to becoming an attorney, how a career in journalism led her to law school, and the networking moments that ultimately brought her to Hightower Reff Law.

Tosha shares how she built the firm's estate planning department from the ground up, overcame her fear of the courtroom, and found her passion for helping families through estate planning, guardianships, conservatorships, adoptions, and surrogacy. She also opens up about her own adoption story, why adoption work holds such a special place in her heart, and why everyone—not just the wealthy—needs an estate plan.

Whether you're interested in the human side of being an attorney, the importance of networking, or practical legal planning for your future, this episode offers an inspiring look at the journey of one remarkable lawyer.

Every family law case is different—and that's exactly what makes family law so challenging.

In this episode of The Lady Lawyer League, attorneys Jac Ziola and Katelyn Swaney discuss why two families with seemingly similar circumstances can receive completely different outcomes, why "it depends" is often the most honest legal answer, and how divorce and custody cases are nothing like what you see on TV. They also dive into custody misconceptions, relocation cases, co-parenting challenges, and what judges are really looking for in family court.

What happens when a journalism major, a chance networking connection, and a decade-old coffee meeting all come full circle?

In this episode of Lady Lawyer League, Tracy sits down with Partner Attorney Tosha Heavican to talk about her unconventional path to becoming a lawyer, the professional relationships that changed the course of her career, and how she found her home at Hightower Reff Law.

Tosha shares candid stories about overcoming imposter syndrome, learning to trust herself in the courtroom, and discovering the confidence to take on challenges she once avoided. The conversation also dives into her passion for estate planning, adoptions, surrogacy law, and helping families navigate some of life's most important transitions.

From networking and mentorship to adoption day celebrations with Ollie the Octopus, this episode is filled with personal stories, practical wisdom, and a reminder that sometimes the biggest opportunities come from the connections we make along the way.

This episode of the Lady Lawyer League podcast starts with a hilarious detour into conspiracy theories, moon landings, the Titanic submersible, scuba diving, Reddit rabbit holes, and even Taylor Swift rumors before Susan and Tracy tie it all back to one thing: the misinformation people bring into divorce consultations. From custody myths and cheating accusations to hidden assets, prenups, and bad internet advice, the attorneys break down some of the biggest misconceptions people have when starting the divorce process. They also share why consultations matter, what clients should actually expect from a divorce attorney, and how to separate emotional support from legal strategy during one of life's hardest transitions. It's equal parts candid conversation, legal insight, and chaotic best-friend energy.

Tracy and Susan discuss what's changed over the last few years, and talk about returning to the podcast after three years off.

What happens during a divorce when abuse is present? How do you safeguard yourself and those you love during those tough times? Divorce can be an incredibly difficult experience, and it gets even more complicated when abuse is involved. With the help of Susan and Tracy in this episode, you'll learn how to safeguard yourself or your loved ones during these tough times. Knowing the signs of various forms of abuse could prove vital for protecting both yourself and those around you from further harm.

Takeaways from this episode:

• Identify When To Divorce
• What evidence can be used in a divorce proceeding
• Misperceptions of divorce

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Visit Hightower-Reff Law for caring attorneys that will help you through your divorce.

Tracy's favorite podcasts:

Boom! Lawyered

Midwest Misfits

The Daily

Up First

This American Life

Hidden Brain

Susan's favorite podcasts:

Unf*ck Your Brain

Pod Save America

Yes, I am Adopted Don't Make it Weird

Are you ready to make sure your loved ones are taken care of? As tough as it may seem, there's some simple steps that need to be followed in order to lessen the hassle during difficult times. That's why estate planning is so important! In this episode we take a look at the four documents you must have to plan your estate. So tune in to find some peace of mind knowing that those closest to you are secure when it matters most!

Takeaways from this episode:

• How wills work
• Uses of Power of Attorney
• What is personal property

Need help with your estate? Reach out to Hightower-Reff Law to help out with those four must have estate planning documents.

Ever wonder what happens to your stuff after you die? Well, it turns out that the court has a say. Enter Tosha Heavican: Death Esquire – she's here to give us an inside look at Probate and Estate Law. In this episode, we'll be discussing all things related to probating an estate. From understanding how the process works to figuring out who gets what when all is said and done. So listen up - Tosha is about to drop some knowledge! Let's get started!

Takeaways from this episode:

• What happens to your estate when you die
• Who handles your will
• What the courts can do with your estate

Have questions or need more information? Be sure to reach out to Hightower-Reff Law for advice on your estate. With their help, you can make sure your wishes are known before it's too late.

What happens after a divorce? What are the different judgments and how do they impact you? In this episode Susan and Tracy go over all those post decree tasks that you need to know when your divorce is final.

Once the divorce is final, there are a few things you need to think about. You'll want to make sure that all the necessary judgments have been issued and that you understand them. Property division, alimony (if applicable), child support/custody—these are all important pieces for your post-divorce life.

Takeaways from this episode:

• What happens after a divorce
• What does a final divorced impact
• What are the different judgments and how do they impact you

If you're looking for a divorce lawyer visit Hightower-Reff Law.