How would you go about telling a truth, after concealing a lie? What if it exposed, what would you do or say...
Tell another lie to cover up the other, or fess up that you did it?
What Secret should you tell: Before they find out?
I've cheated on youI live a double lifeI got other children on the sideI'm pregnant and I don't know if it is yoursI have Aids, Hepititus or HerpesI have an addiction...explain to whatI have mental and emotional issuesMy family has mental and/physical impariments in our genes
When should you tell a Secret?
After 3 months of getting to know the basics about someone?Right away?After you have sex?Over candle light and dinnerAll of the above?
Who should know about your secret and can you trust them?
Whatever it is, what is the COSTof coming clean? What if you kept a secret for a friend, what is the COST for doing it, what is the COST for telling it...what is the CONSEQUENCES? How would one act on something like this:
No longer can you be trusted?God will bless you for not standing in an EVIL thing?Using the method that love COVERS the mulitude of sins?lose family members, relationships, and friendships for doing the right thing.??Compassion
Use PRUDENCE and JUDGEMENT before you tell anything that will damage your reputation, loyalty, or integrity. Decide if the person is trustworthy to handle your secret with care, supplication in prayer, and come to a mutual understanding if this is something you want in your life..
Give a person a chance to make an EDUCATED DECISION about being withyou!
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